1、If we dream everything is possible,敢于梦想 一切都将成为可能,王保忠 2012-11-10,大学生&爱情,To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.,对于世界而言，你是一个人；但是对于某个人，你是他的整个世界。,Long- distance relationship,A long-distance relationship (LDR) is typically an intimate relationship that takes place when
2、 the partners are separated by a considerable distance.,Long-distance relationship(LDR)指双方相隔距离遥远，但却保有亲密关系的状况，也就是我们所说的“异地恋”或“远程恋爱”。,Before the popularity of internet dating, long-distance relationships were not as common, as the primary forms of communication between the romance lovers usually involv
3、ed either telephone conversations or corresponding via mail. However, with the advent of the Internet, long-distance relationships have exploded in popularity as they become less challenging to sustain with the use of modern technology. Technologies including cell phones, e-mail, online chatting and
4、 video conferencing have made it possible to keep in touch.,在网恋盛行之前，异地恋还不是很普遍，因为那时候恋爱双方的沟通交流方式仅限于电话或写信。不过，随着网络的普及，异地恋忽然遍地开花。因为现代技术使远程感情的维系变得不再那么困难。手机、电子邮件、在线聊天以及视频聊天等通讯技术可以让双方随时保持联系。,The people of us nothing difficult from other Take the dream into university What in the university Eating sleeping l
5、eaning Also has telephone It is made to settle the distance for us We have the love in the university As same at suffer from the distance of love It let us nervous.,我们这一群人和其他人没有什么不同 出生在八零和九零的衔接处 怀揣着梦想进入大学 大学有什么呢 吃饭 睡觉 上课 也有电话 他是为了解决我们得距离而产生的 在大学中我们有了我们得爱情 同样忍受爱的距离 它让我们惶恐不安,我们这么一群人和其他人没有什么不同 怀揣着梦想进入大
6、学 大学有什么呢 吃饭 睡觉 上课 也有电话 他是为了解决我们得距离而产生的 在大学我们有了我们的爱情 同样忍受爱的距离 它让我们惶恐不安,A perfect love consists of three parts to form a complete love and the three parts are Closeness Passion Commitment . When all three parts are satisfied your love will be strong and perfect. It will bring us a feeling of certainty
7、 that we can truly enjoy our true love .,一段比较完全的爱他是需要有三个板块来组成这个完整的爱，这三个板块就是一个亲密感、一个激情、还有一个承诺。这三个板块满足的时候你的爱、爱情才可以牢固丰满。给人产生一种很有把握真正享受爱情。,I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.,Its hard enough to make local relationships work, but having mile, States, and som
8、etimes even an ocean between you makes it even more difficult. However, successful long distance relationships can and do exist. Heres how to give yours every chance to survive and thrive.,经营一段本地恋情已然相当困难，更何况当两人相隔数英里，或者一个州，甚至是一片海洋。然而，成功的异地恋确实存在。以下方法教你把握住每一个机会，让你的异地恋生存并繁荣。,Ask the important questions
9、at the onset, to make sure you are both clear on the parameters of the relationship.,No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, wont make you cry.,首先要弄明白一些重要的问题，从而更清晰地认识你们两人的关系。,Are you open to the possibility of relocating if the relationship should become more serious?“ or “What are
10、you looking to get out of the relationship?“.,如果两人的关系更进一步，会考虑搬家吗？“或是：“彼此想从两人的关系中获取什么呢？,Since you wont be seeing each other, its important to establish and maintain an emotional connection. These dont always have to be long, in-depth conversations. Tell each other about your little triumphs and trage
11、dies. Ask for advice. Use an instant messenger program or web cams for that visual connection.,Communicate in some way every day, more than once if possible.,尽管你们看不到对方，但是建立和维持情绪上的沟通十分重要。并不总是需要冗长而又有深度的交流。彼此分享小成就或是小挫折。彼此征询意见。发短信或是聊QQ,要不就去视频聊天。,Communication is extremely important .,Try to make the tim
12、e to visit each other as often as possible or as often as your budget permits you to. A relationship cannot thrive if the only thing you have is the phone calls. You need to see each other up close and personal every chance you get. The key here is to set up some “rules“ about frequency of communica
13、tion and visits and stick to them, consistency can help a LDR survive.,Visit often 多见面,如果时间允许，预算允许，那能多见面就多见面吧。只打电话是不能让感情茁壮成长的。只要有机会，就要面对面。这方面的秘诀是建立一系列关于日常交流和见面的“制度“,坚持执行，这样可以保住你们异地恋的小命儿。,It is never too late to fall in love.,Do things together. Defy the distance. 统一协作，藐视距离。,As a long distance couple
14、, its important to do other things together besides the usual phone call. In a long distance relationship, interaction over the phone can become dull in the long run. Incorporating other forms of interaction are important.很重要的一点，作为异地情侣，除了平时打电话你们还应该一起做些别的事情。长期打电话是不是很无聊？尝试其他形式的协作非常重要。,Just think peopl
15、e in short-distance relationships do not spend the majority of their time talking, but rather doing things with each other. Try to replicate this by finding things to do together such as watching a TV show or movie simultaneously.想想看，非异地的情侣绝不会花很多时间去打电话，而是一起去做一些事情。你们也要尝试着这样做，尽量找点可以一起做的事情，比如看一样的电视节目或电
16、影。,Communicate in some way every day, more than once if possible. 不管怎么着，每天都交流，并且尽可能的多些吧。,Take advantage of the benefits a long distance relationship offers. 利用异地恋带来的优势。,Avoid jealousy and be trusting. 不要妒嫉，要信任。,送给异地恋人们英文情话精选,Thank you for comforting me when Im sad Loving me when Im mad Picking me up
17、 when Im down Thank you for being my friend and being around Teaching me the meaning of love Encouraging me when I need a shove But most of all thank you for Loving me for who I am,I dont know what to say.Im just thinking of you a lot at this moment,感谢你在我伤心时安慰我， 当我生气时你护著我， 当我沮丧时你拉拔我。 感谢你作我的朋友并且在我身旁，
18、 教导我爱的意义是什麼， 当我需要动力时你鼓励我。 但我最想感谢你的是， 爱上像我这样的一个人。,Love is more than a word, it says so much. When I see these four letters, I almost feel your touch. This only happened since I fell in love with you. Why this word does this, I havent got a clue Love,I love that you are the last person I want to talk
19、to before I go to sleep at night,爱不单是一个字， 它还代表了许多意涵， 当我看到这四个字母时， 我几乎能感受到你内心的感动。 但是这只发生在， 我爱上你之後， 为何这个字有如此的魔力， 我也搞不清楚。,If I could save time in a bottle the first thing that Id like to do is to save every day until eternity passes away just to spend them with you if I could make days last forever if w
20、ords could make wishes come true Id save every day like a treasure and then again I would spend them with you,如果我能把时间存入一个瓶子， 我要作的第一件事就是， 把每一天都存下来直到永恒， 再和你一起慢慢度过。 如果我能把时间化作永恒， 如果我的愿望能一一成真， 我会把每天都像宝贝一样存起来， 再和你一起慢慢度过。,Thank you for standing behind me In all that I do I hope youre as happy with me As I
21、am with you,感谢你永远支持我， 不论我作了些什麼， 我希望你跟我在一起永远开心， 就像我跟你在一起时那麼地快乐。,To sweetheart or friend, words can mean much. Valentine heart to heart, conveys a loving touch. 给我的爱人或是朋友， 一句话可以代表许多意思， 让我们传递著情人节的讯息， 也传送出爱的感觉。,Youre always there for me When things tend to go wrong Its that faith you have in me That mak
22、es our love strong 当我需要你时你永远在那裏， 就算是我犯了错误也没关系， 是你对我坚定的信心， 让我们的爱更加茁壮。,Your name is such ordinary but it affects my mood all round,A better love I couldnt ask for With your sweet and gently way And knowing that your love for me Grows more everyday 我再也没法找到一个比你更好爱我的人， 能比你更加温柔和体贴， 我也深深地相信， 你对我的爱一天比一天更深。,祝福领班，天天开心,
