1、American culture focus on personal characteristics and freedom, which is a kind of society mainly based on individualism. Love matters most when Americans choose their lovers ,both men and women would rather sacrifice everything for true love .Their choosing lovers and their marriage are totally bas
2、ed on love instead of their status ,age and any other factors . It doesnt matter whether they are rich or poor, love always comes first.In the Fiends, before the several actors and actresses got married, they all had experienced various love from different lovers, of which they even nearly got marre
3、d with the six .However we can draw the conclusion that what they value most is the feeling of being together rather than their height, diploma and the material factors deciding whether they match each other. Monica once fall in love with a rich man, thinking that he would ask her to marry him, and
4、they six had ever gone to her boyfriends grand department to dream their brightly beautiful future life. That time they are also looking forward to money, but the distinction is that they didnt realize that it not bad for ones lover to have heavy money before that visit .They loved nearly all kinds
5、of lovers but they never emphasized the influence or effect brought by money.However, it is totally different for us Chinese people. Marriage in china is not based on love. China s marriage can be without love and love can not make sure a successful marriage .Generally speaking ,the combination of m
6、an and woman is just for making a living -for girls part ,they marry a man to depend upon him ,while men will take many factors into account before they get engaged to a woman ,such as politic position, status ,economic power and many other factors ,because they are afraid of the bad influence over
7、their future progress .The Matching is the primary mattering factor ,the feudalism view on love caged the freedom of love seriously ,destroyed human beings sprit and their rights to love .Love in western countries is full of passion and romance, which is quite different from material linked love in
8、China.According to the Fiends, we know its quite different between Americans and Chinese when choosing a lover .The Six in Friends changed their lovers for not only one time . Interesting, pretty, cute and handsome especially the former two adjectives will be heard when they were introducing new guy
9、s as his or another lover, which is not the case in china. That is to say ,Americans pay more attention to the feeling of being with each other and when they are looking for lovers they are after a Soul mate .Their love was based on personality ,common interests ,sexuality and similar value and norm
10、s .The first date ,they exchange their opinions on life, love and the reason of the former sat-back in love . If they are both interested in the other, then comes the second and third date .In the first season, Monica made her first date with the mixologist who worked in the same restaurant. The mix
11、ologist expressed his poor fate, telling how he had been struggling trough the failed love with his former girl friend. And Monica felt sympathy deeply for him and they couldnt help making love that beautifully romantic night. Monica was so proud of her charming beauty, thinking that she had saved h
12、im. Although the mixologist was turned out to be a cheater who always cheat girls love, but we can find that what they were pursuing is something mental. Ross is a college forever professor,the Reecho he loved is just a woman assistant who even dont know how to make a cup of coffee .They finally get
13、 together through thunderstorms ,however what they are arguing is the respect of love but diploma and jobs Phbe was from poor fate ,just a homeless singer in wine bars and did many temporary jobs ,take mass-gist for example . but through her love story ,there had never been a dater showed any prejudice to her .and Mike who married Phbe said ,is was just because of Phbes strange and the difference from any others that made he fall in love with her .
