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1、弟子规我的家教宝典(Disciple regulation - my tutor book)“Disciple regulation“ - my tutor bookAuthor: release date: 2008-3-5 8:59:59 hitsLaimeifengAll along, I have a special feeling for the traditional culture, often read the classical legacy of our ancestors, know all the good stuff. Therefore, with children

2、, the children are often instilled in this mind. On modern education Westernization results, resulting in a lot of children have a pair of empty Chinese faces, but not Chinese Spirit - the connotation of China culture, hope that their children can be a real Chinese.Daughter after primary school, I h

3、ave plans to let her read some of the Confucian classics, mainly poetry “, and The Four Books and the Five Classics Lao Tzu“, “Chuang-tzu“ etc And to let her read a lot of novels from the ancient four masterpiece, “San Yan“, “two shot“ to modern Strange Tales from Liaozhai, “Besieged City“, “ordinar

4、y world“, and “three doors“, “Beijing Fayuan Temple“, whenever a bit of fame, I will search Luo to her. She usually does not have the time, mostly I use her to write, the meal, and even all leisure time reads to her listens, already arrived the quick success and instant reward situation, feared ever

5、ywhere falls behind the human. At that time, the idea was purely to improve her culture, so as to be more competitive in society, and not to connect reading with life. Gradually, her knowledge indeed accumulated more abundant and her writing ability improved, but this kind of education gradually sho

6、wed its disadvantages. Because the novel in the world, even the so-called famous books or students must read some extra-curricular books, it also contains too much harmful knowledge. If selected, I took pains to check, read about, etc. chapter even skip the killings, but the daughter is inevitably a

7、ffected by some negative effects. First of all, she became arrogant, think that they know a lot, look down on others; there is doing things impetuous, gains and losses, heart is very heavy.A chance, I saw on the Internet Cai Lixu teacher said “fine disciple“, when you hear the poor, but the length o

8、f vanity, a person “, I see light suddenly, the original fundamental education is virtue, but not to read the books of sages, and more is to do! If a person does not stick to the root of a good virtue, the greater the ability in the future, the more dangerous. Like a tree with a weak foundation on a

9、 cliff, the more luxuriant the foliage is, the faster it will fall and the worse it will fall. I congratulate myself that I wake up early and have enough time to recover.The “disciple gauge“ formerly known as “training“, author Li Yuxiu (1662 1722), is the Kangxi of the Qing Dynasty scholar, he in “

10、Confucian Analects“ “disciples into the filial piety, is a brother, I believe, love, and benevolence, with spare effort to learn.“ the center is divided into five parts, the specific regulations are out, at home, my disciples, receiving and learning should abide by, have strong feasibility. When it

11、comes to filial piety, it is specific to “parents call, should not delay; parents life, do not lazy; parents teach, must respect listen to; parents responsibility must be carried forward“ and so on. The “disciple gauge“ is Confucianism is fundamental, enlightenment, education of children, London as

12、best honest tradition restrain vicious and foster sincere habits develop, everyone can not miss a good book.And I watch the CAI through the teachers speech, then each other deeply discussed, daughter realized the importance of the “disciple gauge“, she immediately vowed to put the “disciple gauge“ t

13、o read a thousand times. Since then, we have learned together “disciple regulation“, and it bit by bit into the implementation of life, mutual supervision, mutual encouragement, and received good results, it is really benefited.Her work has always been edgy, not careful. Once cooking, I am busy outs

14、ide, told her to go off the gas cooker, and she carelessly turned the switch to the counterclockwise direction, did not see whether the fire has gone out. After a while, I went in and found no off, have been burned,Just a small fire, rice has become the rice crust. I was startled, sternly asked her

15、what happened. Shes probably scared, that when she shut, dont know how to burn up. I asked her several times, even the demonstration to her, she is not changed. At noon after school, her daughter has been anxious and fearful watching my face. I said to her, “read the disciples rules, see where you a

16、re wrong, and tell me.“!“ When she finally admitted his fault, hesitated and said: “no, is wrong; it is not evil.“ I followed: “is there?“ “The past can be changed, but no“; if it is concealed, an innocent will be added.“ “Mom, I was wrong,“ she said. I was afraid of being scolded by you at that tim

17、e, so I didnt dare to say anything.“ I told her: “many wrong things absolutely can not hide, otherwise mistakes may lead to disaster. “Irren ist menschlich? Its never good thing “, have the courage to take responsibility, do the wrong thing be scolded a few words and even be punished should be, dont

18、 want to hide, wait until things big too late. Now this is not served, how to do big things in the future?“ It touched her so much that I thought she would remember.My daughter has been practicing brush writing for quite a few days, but she has made little progress, and then she has a tendency to go

19、 backwards. The more she wrote, the less confident and more relaxed she was. See “disciple regulations“ in the “ink grinding partial, heart bad, word disrespectful, heart first disease“, she knew the problem of their own, and began to correct writing posture and attitude, and soon entered the state.

20、 Recently, a lot of progress, she also gradually realize the fun, no longer afraid of the office.The daughter painted Avalokitesvara statueNowadays the standard of living has improved, and everyone has a lot of clothes. Before, I was also a keen on clothes, obviously not short of clothes to wear, yo

21、u can see the clothes you like, or can not help buying, so many idle clothes at home, causing unnecessary waste. To study the “disciple gauge“ in “clean your clothes, not your Chinese“ in the future, I promptly get rid of their own problems, get rid of “womens clothes are always a little“ psychologi

22、cal, otherwise, not only a waste of money and resources, will also give her daughter a misleading, the future will only become a chase fashion but people with no ambition at all, life will be very distressed. Girls should pay special attention to this. Some people say that education is more importan

23、t than teaching their daughter, son is not good, will only harm their own, and the daughter will marry out, if not good, it will harm other peoples family, generation after generation. She will also be a mother in the future, and her mother will have the greatest influence on her children. A poor mo

24、ther can not teach her able children, and then she will continue to influence them from generation to generation. So it is “the world is so small because of less human sage and virtuous mother this sentence. We have taught our children, which is a great contribution to our country.Now a lot of kids,

25、 all love to see some books, like a comic book or killing demons and ghosts, a variety of popular books such as pure entertainment, and there is too much to kill a robber prostitution jump TV and Internet and games, which gave the childs mind caused a lot of pollution. As the disciple said, “the boo

26、k of the gods, the screen, the wisdom and the bad will.“.“ So I would urge children to try to avoid contact with these things, until the virtue education took root in their heart, have the resolution ability is good and evil, with the correct outlook on life and values, there will be a natural immun

27、ity, even if will put himself away from the limited time and energy in the right. This, I and my daughter have also made a consensus, automatic and these things “insulation.“. The family never had a TV because I left the TV set. I think, in the family, parents require children to do, they must first

28、 do; they can not do, but asked the child to do, she is not convinced.For example, do not want children to watch TV, do not look at themselves; no matter no Internet; do not play mahjong, do not do some boring things; to get rid of their bad habits, to have “know every day“, “day after day“. One day

29、 I do not know, the day is a day to self; no change, that is a day without step into “consciousness. To read more, to read good books - to sages, classics, friends, and strive to improve their virtues, and everywhere to do a good example of children, to create a peaceful and pure family atmosphere.

30、If so, why not worry about their childrens progress?The basis of Chinese traditional culture lies in filial piety, and the disciple code is no more than that. After learning the “disciple gauge“, I realized my parents while they do favours weighty as a mountain, not enough thought, Fengnianguojie se

31、nd some money, buy something for my parents, very filial piety, while the heart is not born a sense of gratitude and devotion. Later, on my birthday, I wrote letters to my parents, sent money, thanked them for their upbringing, and confessed the past. All these daughters naturally look into their ey

32、es. She sometimes speak blunt tone, make me angry, since she had “at home and serve their parents, to love Shirley, Roushengxiaqi Xi, in nature, is a lattice and as a motto, always remind myself of filial piety, attitude greatly than before. Usually also know how to share some housework, washing dis

33、hes, chopsticks or something. On the day of her birthday, her father came back and apologized for not buying her a birthday present. She said, teacher Cai said, “birthday is mothers day,“ is the day of Thanksgiving, do not need gifts. Finish end two chairs, let mom and dad to sit down, and then sole

34、mnly said: “thank you mom and dad 11 years raisegraciousness“ Her father had already shed tears of excitement.There are still a lot of problems in my children, but Im not as anxious as I used to be. I believe that as long as the fundamentals of life are well developed, the children do not need to wo

35、rry about their parents when they grow up.Editors note:India Zuyun: “Cardiff world does not treat, because the family is not good to teach, Tianzi, Xi is arrogant, no beauty, sex in the Fu is foolish, the national society two. This is known as the Godson Jhihping, and particularly to cut the goddaug

36、hter of today, to a virtuous woman, today is the good wife and virtuous mother. People can get education and virtuous mother, wife of the assistant, is there not a sage sigh! This is also the fundamental children Peace reigns over the land.“Through exchanges and Lai brother, did not know that she is

37、 with the Dharma and educate the children, make people deeply gratified praise, this is her message excerpts:I am the only junior high school culture, was very stupid, because the Mongolian Buddhist, Buddha mercy blessing, have some right knowledge. This is the parents meeting speech should be invit

38、ed to the school cannot but hard out. As a matter of fact, I have too much to say about family education, far from being so simple as a disciples rule.Compared to her peers, her daughter is really sensible. For example, the elders, never talk back; too observant of conventional standards. know what

39、to do, and what not to do; learning without parents worry about their food and clothing, very motivated; not picky, not spending money; care for small animal, to see the students playing the fly is very sad, every aspect is not wrong. Many parents are very envious of me. In fact, the daughter of the

40、 growth process has been guided by the idea of Buddhism, the “disciple gauge“, “Three Character Classic“ and some other basic books play a supporting role in confucianism. In 2000 a great opportunity, I had the privilege of taking refuge, and every day immersed in the ocean of Dharma, read like hung

41、er and thirst to Buddhism, have hitherto unknown feelings, suddenly realized that the past life of ludicrousness, began to live a simple life, a hard trouble in taming the habit, always with the Dharma to take care of themselves the behavior of the day and regular cleaning. That year, 5 year old dau

42、ghter, we began to follow a vegetarian, day ceremony, summer vacation to visit the temple.I often do not encourage her, try to use the Dharma standards to their own requirements. In “the teacher Shakya Muni Buddha,“ biography “virtual cloud the old monks footprints“, “shadow dust memoirs“, “Baiyujin

43、g“ and other Buddhist monasteries, daughter from the urine with the concept of the five precepts, ten good, six degrees, four photographs, especially the concept of karma in the early heart took root the behavior of natural, than the average child to be self-made.I was opposed to her reading some of

44、 the worlds literary works, always want to protect her heart purity, but in such a social environment, my desire is extremely difficult to achieve. No, I have to pick up a long read world literature, respectively selection, strict control. Grade 123 try not to let her see, but I read every single wo

45、rd or phrase to listen to her, took pains to skip some killings, love should not be child chapters for some wrong words, see also watch her resolution to be observed. In my efforts, she basically didnt get hurt, and drew something useful from it, which could be seen in her writing. Now the child is

46、12 years old, on the six grade, I can not help in many ways, such as the teacher asked them to read more extra-curricular books, and some literary works also require reading. I may not be like a kid like to read every single word or phrase to listen to her, but has repeatedly warned her: right and w

47、rong must use Buddhism to measure, have a resolution, dont, dont be misled.It is worth mentioning that, because the whole atmosphere of social competition, and now the pressure of children is particularly large, my daughter is no exception, the results of special care, dreams also want to go to key

48、high schools, forcing themselves very hard. At this point, Ill guide her: “good grades are related to effort or not, but more importantly, it has more to do with karma than with hard work.“. You must Duopei Fuld, do more good, this is the fundamental way to change the fate of. In fact, true dedicati

49、on, humility, not competition, fortune will also follow the shadow, this is caused by causality. Usually see the opportunity to help others must cherish, especially students to ask for homework, to answer with great efforts, can not have the slightest stingy heart. When you see someone else doing well in the exam, dont be jealous. Stand up to him and be happy for him. Usually use the gift of money to do alms, help India, books, charity and so on, this is the real way to increase intelligence.“ Now the parents generally do not have this kind of consciousness, t

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