1、中国式饭局宴会全规则（China style dinner party rule）China style dinner party ruleAuthor: Xiao WenjianChina style dinner party rule the first partPrefaceIn life, sometimes like a dinner, from downtown to the end, from the gorgeous annihilation, to clear from the stage from the raging like a storm, the gorgeous
2、curtain call.China culture has a long history, “dinner“ the term originated in the Song Dynasty, has one thousand years of history, in the long history, the historical figures in the wonderful game dinner, since people impressed by their wisdom. Such as the Xiangyan Qi during the spring and Autumn p
3、eriod, in the dinner on “two peach killing three people“, eliminating the gain victory with unstained swords worrying political risks; Lin Mianchi on Qu Qin, Zhao peace for decades. In addition, such as “Hongmenyan“ and “qingmeizhujiu heroes“ and “wine release for“, “fire celebration floor“ and othe
4、r famous ancient dinner is for having heard it many times, even woman and children all know. Therefore, since ancient times, have dinner can not be overlooked.Sometimes, many in the normal day is not easy to talk about, not easy to do, but whenever the change to the table above, everything is good,
5、talk about, easy to handle, so, diet, and sometimes also the road of human integration. A dinner, not only is the communication between relatives and friends, can also be business rivals Inter confrontation negotiations. Therefore, since ancient times, in China, “food“ is not only to meet peoples ph
6、ysiological needs, it also plays a more important role, that is, the carrier of social. So, through the dinner, we see the group interests, social relations, interpersonal rules and cultural heritage in the way of food. The so-called wonderful dinner, not in the “meal“ as in “Bureau“.Now, it is no e
7、xaggeration to say that culture to Chinese dinner catering a sunny day. Dinner, sometimes not only affect their own successes and failures, can even affect their life. So, if a person wants to gain a foothold in this society, no matter in what position, what is the role of the dinner party, if you d
8、o not understand these rules, are likely to face out of danger.The dinner has attracted more and more attention, and more and more people want to find the rules of the game to dinner, hopes that he will be able in the dinner. The book according to the needs of the people, the spirit of taking histor
9、y as a mirror for the purpose of opening dinner historys most influential, paving the way for each board behind Weiweidaolai, combined with the reality of the case taught us how to play the banquet scene. It also details every detail of inviting guests, dining, and checking out, so that we can say g
10、oodbye to the awkwardness of table manners from now on. More carefully attached to the food market, and other common sense things, in order to prepare for readers reference. It can be said that this book is not only a dining etiquette book, or a rare philosophy consultant, but also a close life secr
11、etary. Hope that readers in reading the book, can really benefit, on the day after the dinner party take time for help.Yanzi - two peaches, three talents (1)Dining tables can change history, and chopsticks can change history books.People often say, “revolution is not a dinner party.“.“ Indeed, revol
12、utions and eating are worlds apart, however, in a particular Chinese culture,Revolution and eating are inextricably linked. China history, dinner, no wonder wheel tuibeihuanzhan between change history. The wisdom above the banquet is also a wonderful sight in the long history of china.The dinner, or
13、iginally is to make friends, communicate with the carrier of emotion, but in the hands of politicians who said the dinner is as changeable as clouds and rain, they display their talent in the political arena, so the dinner is really a carefully designed a “bureau“, a little careless, incoming person
14、 will fall, unable to extricate themselves.Early in the spring and Autumn period, Qi Zi in the dinner party on Xiangyan to make clever, gain victory with unstained swords, as easy as blowing off dust, the final two to kill three Likebashan peach warriors, eliminating the worry of political risks.In
15、Qi Jing family and Minister rush grew up in public, has been a dream to the Duke when dominance, is a result of the political ambitions, the early king is very diligent, good advice, interest subjects, and worship Yan Ying as the prime minister, the country gradually restored. The revitalization of
16、the country is quite a long way for a long time, the king of Qi has become somewhat ambitious, bear he wants to build up their own armed forces by raising a group of warriors to. Tian Kaijiang, Gongsun Jie and Guye sub qijinggong is the keeper of the warriors, known as “Qi sanjie“.The three men were
17、 very brave and had the strength to fight the tigers. They all made great contributions to Qi county and were greatly loved by Qi jing. But then they spoiled pride, like, even the Yanzi also not put in the eye.At this time, the United Nations has several big nobles, defeated the powerful Luans and G
18、ao Qi Tian forces more and more, the kings rule has a great threat. And it belongs to the family of Tian Tian Kaijiang, Yan Ying is very worried about the “Heroes“ as Tian effect, is a great political risks. So the king of Qi said: “I have heard that the kings and keeper of the warriors, in prohibit
19、ing violence, foreign can deter the enemy, it praised their merits, below admire their courage, so that they have the distinguished position, generous paul. Now the king keeper of the warriors, to no monarch of the ceremony, also do not pay attention to his Lun, prohibiting foreign riots cannot dete
20、r the enemy, these are people who get rid of them as quickly.“ The king said: “the three men Wu Yi high strength, not to want to escape capture, no thorns, what to do?“ Get King public acquiescence, Yan son decided to wait for the three people.One day, the king of Qi hosted Duke Zhao Qi to visit, sh
21、usun was in charge of the wax by etiquette, Qi Yan Ying to etiquette, monarch four sat in the classroom, very arrogant attitude of the “Heroes“ sword standing in the hall. This is a trick in mind and Yan Ying, Yan Ying finally got rid of their opportunities, originally peaceful banquet hidden danger
22、s.When halfway through the banquet, Yan Ying see time has come to contain any wine, the king of Qi said: “the golden peach orchard has matured, please pick a few two monarch taste fresh?“ Qi Jing Gong listened very happy, so ordered people to pick. Yan Ying said: “these golden peach is very rare cur
23、iosities,Its better for me to pick it up myself.“ Qi Jing nodded assent.A moment later, Yan Yingduan with six large fresh, fragrant, pink, with coveted peaches back. Qi Jing asked, “is there only a few peaches?“ Yan Ying replied, “some arent ripe yet, so they only picked the six.“.“ He respectfully
24、dedicated to the king of Qi and Lu zhao. Two monarchs, one with a golden peach, while eating, praised the sweet peach flavor. Qi Jing Gong said, “such a luscious peach is rare. Dr. Sun Sun is famous all over the world and deserves to eat one.“.“ Uncle Sun said: “let Laqian Yan Xiangguo in correction
25、 of politics, foreign princes can be convinced, the maximum credit, where I can catch up? The peach should be eaten by reason.“ Yan Zi also rushed humility, qijinggong see two of them over the dispute, he said: “the two have toiled, and so it is humility, two people drink a cup of wine, eat a peach!
26、“ Then two people thanked the king of Qi, drink wine, eat a peach.Yanzi - two peaches, three talents (2)At this time, there are two jade peach, Yan Ying said: “please the king came the holy order to all men, who work, who will eat peaches, how?“ The king of Qi Yan Ying to understand, and act in acco
27、rdance with the plan, get.Three warriors give only two peaches, and one on them. Peaches are not sure enough to cause dissension, so eating them by the size of their merits means that those who have great merit can eat them. Then, three warriors said their own merit, think of his merits unparalleled
28、.Gongsun Jie first said: “I have an empty handed kill a large boar, an unarmed and killed a tiger, I like this credit, can only eat a peach.“ Having finished, he picked up the peaches and stood up.Tian Kaijiang said: “I had two armed forces to defeat the enemy, like me credit, can only eat a peach.“
29、 Finish, also took peaches stood up.Guye rushed snapped: “what is surprising to your credit! I send the monarch the Yellow River when a big turtle took the trouble, Kings horse leg, all of a sudden the horse dragged to the rapids. I jumped into the river, killing his big turtle, saved the lives of t
30、he monarch. Should I eat a peach like this?“Qijinggong said: “the Yellow River was not a general cut to roaring waves, we in addition to blame, my life would have gone. This is the outstanding service, should eat a peach.“Gongsun Jie and Tian Kaijiang together said: “we work less than you, take away
31、 peaches without humility, this is so greedy; but did not dare to die, this is no courage.“ Two people are back in the peach, committed suicide. Guye Zi said: “the two are dead, I live alone, this is not to take it; humiliate others, and boast of their own credit, this is injustice, violations of ju
32、stice, death is the fear.“ He also put the peach to pay back, committed suicide.Duke Zhao witnessed the scene, infinite regret, only half a day stood up and said: “I heard that the three generals are a match for ten thousand warriors, but to a peach are dead.“Qijinggong sighed, silent. At this time,
33、 Yan Ying unhurried said: “they are more brave than wise man. There will be only, both intelligent and courageous people, there are dozens of people in our country, such as Beowulf boor, then more. Its nothing special for a few of them. You dont mind, please continue drinking!“This is the story of t
34、wo peach killing three people, then, according to the kings funeral warrior buried them, buried in the tomb of all south, called “three +“. As in, Yan Ying known three + character, expect two peach reward three warriors, they will not follow qijinggong orders, “power and fresh peach“, but “no peckin
35、g ritual“, to show off their own credit to grab peach.The warriors fight, absolutely meet the sword. No Yan Ying expected, Tian Kaijiang and Gongsun Jiedou picked up the peaches all fall over each other, no one can think martial guise, and his commander; Guye also thinks the brave over Tian Kaijiang
36、 and Gongsun Jie, but they have been so seize the peach, a sword, ask them to hand over two peach. It seems to solve the problem of the dispute, or by the sword, killing a fight at outrance, or produce a peach to accept other peoples insult, but A scholar prefers death to humiliation., who is the bi
37、ggest taboo warrior, so bound to die without shame. Because of an insult to others to kill people, then this person is regarded as a heartless person, if a person was considered heartless, is a warrior can not stand, rather than insult, so, insult others what face alive? It can be said that no matte
38、r to solve in what way, three men are mortal.Zhu Geliang in the Fuyin “beam“ in the poem said: “step out of Qi gate, looking down in the shade, three grave, and is similar to. Ask who is Zhong Tian Jiang, Guye, force row Nanshan, Wen can vast geography, a calumny, two peach killing three people. Who
39、 can to seek, Xiangguo Qi Yan zi.“ Above the feast, the little peaches were given a symbol of glory. Two peach three + points, with the minimum cost, causing the greatest degree of objective and subjective sense of inequality, makes two pieces of peach by round steel is softened, five paces, to seiz
40、e peoples lives, also be not at all surprising.The dinner winning RaidersIn the face of the dinner room, amidst the winds of change, is that many important action. Good at making concessions, one can keep himself, and the two for himself to retain the opportunity. Concession is not cowardice, it is
41、to make greater progress. So, remember not impulsive Yong, to mess up.Lin Xiangru, Mianchi meeting Qu QinYanzhao since the ancient times are bred hero land, history is endless, town talk topic full of pride, the ancient capital of Handan and the people of the Yi River sung through the ages is what k
42、ind of spirit? “Shi mu Yuanling Judah to Hebei elegy to others.“ “His burglary Zhao Fu save“ is the story of everyone for having heard it many times this practice, although today it seems difficult to understand, but at the time of the Warring States period, it reflects mans chivalrous character, as
43、 the wind is The wind blows strongly. “; the Yi River is so cold, the hero will go never to return!“This is an elegy of Hebei, the discovery of a plot, the defeat of his death,“ Jing Ke Qin “is the most tragic hero legend. However, in the Warring States heroes, most admired or Zhao Qing Lin.The end
44、wall of Zhao “, we offer a humble apology“ for having heard it many times idioms, they say that Lins have tremendous courage and wisdom the two stories, however, cannot generalize Lins superhuman wisdom and ready to do boldly what is righteous, the most famous is “Mianchi“.“Mianchi meeting“ is how o
45、ne does not know the destiny of “Banquet“, nothing to lose in the mind each bosom of the dinner, do not look at non have tremendous courage and wisdom, Lin is how to fight and the battle of wits in the dinner.Qin zhaoxiangwang bent to make Zhao yield, in 282 BC, and sent General Bai Qi Zhao Qi and J
46、ane place two. Then they invaded the frontier of Zhao Dynasty, occupied some places and fought in the two countries. Although Zhao lost a lot of troops, the offensive of Qin was also stopped.In 279 BC, in order to concentrate the troops to attack Chu, Qin zhaoxiangwang came up with and Zhao and tric
47、ks, so please king Zhao Huiwen meet in Mianchi, to discuss our fixed event, Zhao Wang puzzled the intention, then the plan not to go about this. Po, Lin Zhao advised the king said: “if not to the king, said Zhao is weak and timid.“ Zhao Wang had to bite the bullet and adventure to attend the meeting
48、, and let Lin Xiangru go with him.In order to prevent the play and detain the play Huai Wang, Zhao Huiwenwang and Li Mu five thousand people sent troops to escort, with Pingyuan troops in tens of thousands of people in the border.The date is scheduled to meet with the king of Qin, Zhao and Wang met
49、in Mianchi, and held a banquet, happy to drink chat.Qin zhaoxiangwang drank several cup of wine, with a drunk said to Zhao Huiwenwang: “I heard that the king of Zhao playing a good hand. Please Zhao Wang play a song, give everybody to help add to the fun!“ He really told about to take up with. Zhao Wang cant refuse, had to play the song. At this time, Qin Shi came and wrote in Jane: one day, the king of Zhao and Wang in Mianchi party, the emperor orders the king of Zhao harp.Zhao Huiwenwang purple with anger, at that moment, Lin Xiangru took a fou, suddenly kneeling to Qin Zha
