1、Mind Your Manners,Lesson 2,Free talk:,Do you think youre a person with good manners? Why?,Meeting and Greeting people,1.Greeting people:,2.What you should do:,3.What you shouldnt say:,Western manners,Good morning,Good afternoon,Good evening,How do you do?,Hello,How are you?,Greeting people:,Nice to
2、meet you!,Raise his hat.,1. If a man is wearing a hat,how should he greet you?,2. When you first meet someone, what should you do?,3. If the woman doesnt offer her hand , what should youdo?,Nod your head,What you should do:,Shake his hands.,Where are you going ?,Where have you been?,Have you had you
3、r dinner?,What you shouldnt say:,handshake,kiss,embrace,shake,nod,bow,kiss your hand to sb.,Western manners,Table Manners,Western manners,10,( ) 1.Use the fork with your right hand. ( ) 2. Put your napkin(餐巾) on your lap. ( ) 3. Start eating as soon as your food is served in front of you. ( ) 4. Ask
4、 for a second bowl of soup. ( ) 5. Use your fingers when eating chicken. ( ) 6. Finish eating everything on your plate . ( ) 7. Talk loudly while eating. ( ) 8. Make other people drink more spirits(烈酒)than they can take.,I,P,I,I,P,P,I,I,Decide which of the following behaviors are polite or impolite
5、at a western dinner party. Write P (polite) or I (impolite) in the brackets.,A friend from Britain named Jack invites you to have dinner at his home at 7:00 pm. What will you do if you want to make a good impression on the others?,Discussion:,1.Before dinner, arrive _ _ .,2.At the dinner party, foll
6、ow _ _. For example, speak _ and _ a lot.,3. When leaving, Say _ and _.,In a word, knowing the manners will help you make,a good impression on the others.,on time,table manners,thanks,goodbye,quietly,smile,What will you do if you want to make a good impression on the others?,Task 1,Listen to the dia
7、logues and complete the Function File.,Dialogue 1: Formal,Christina: Excuse me? Could you pass the lemon and salt, (1)_ ? Man: Yes, certainly. Christina: (2)_. Man: Youre (3)_.,please,Thank you,welcome,Being polite,D,Listening Strategies: Prediction,1. Try to think of possible answers. 2. Focus on t
8、he language the people use( formal or informal.) 3. Use your general knowledge to help you.,Dialogue 2: Informal,Boy: So what do you think we should do thisweekend? What about going canoeing again? Girl: Yeah, last time we went it was great!Or we could take our flashlights Christina: Er, Id (4)_ not
9、, thanks. Id rather stay cosy and read my novel. Girl: All right, Or how about going to the circus?,rather,B,Dialogue 3: Formal,Christina: (5)_, Mrs Davis? Do you think I (6)_ speak to you? Mrs Davis: Yes, dear. Christina: Would you (7)_ giving me andmy classmate a lift to school? We need Mrs Davis:
10、 Of course not. In about ten minutes, Ok? We can go in the jeep. Christina: Thanks a lot. Thats very (8)_of you. Mrs Davis: Its no (9)_. Any time.,Excuse me,could,mind,kind,trouble,A,Dialogue 4: Informal,Boy: Hi, Christina. Have you got the blanketsand sheets you borrowed? Christina: Oh, Ive forgott
11、en them! Im (10)_. Boy: Thats Okay, bring them tomorrow. Ineed them for our camping trip. Christina: Yes, I will, I (11)_.,really sorry,promise,C,Task 2,Make a list of the polite expressions in the Function File we use.,a) to ask for something politely,Excuse me, could you pass the lemon andsalt, pl
12、ease?,b) to reply to someones thanks,Youre welcome.,c) to politely refuse an invitation,Id rather not, thanks.,/ Its no trouble! Any time.,d) to make a request to someone you dont know very well,e) to thank someone for doing something for you,Do you think I could speak to you? Would you mind giving
13、me and my classmatea lift to school?,Thanks a lot. Thats very kind of you.,f) to apologize to a friend,Oh, Ive forgotten them ! Im really sorry.,Group 1: Ask a stranger to close a window on a train. Group 2: Decide with a friend what to do at the weekend. Group 3: Ask a waiter to give you the menu.
14、Group 4: Decide where to go on holiday with a friend.Make a dialogue with your partner according to the situation above. Imagine what happens.,Task 3:Role-plays,Speaking Strategies,Decide how formal or informal the situation is. 2. Decide which role you are going to play. 3. Pay attention to the sui
15、table expressions. You can use some expressions in the Function File. 4.Pay attention to the intonation.,SHOWING A LOT OF FEELINGS,SHOWING NO FEELINGS,“Open” cultures: Showing every- thing they feel,Mixed cultures: In between “open” and “closed” cultures,“Closed” cultures: Not showing their feelings
16、,Japanese British Americans Italians,Italians,Japanese,British,Americans,Chinese,quieter shyer more modest,Task 4,Listening Strategies,1. Dont worry if you cant understand everything. 2. Listen for important words and phrases.,Task 5,Pre-listening: Discuss and complete the table.,x,x,= yes, often;,X
17、 = not so often or never,Listening Strategies,1. Make sure you know what you have to do. 2. Use the headings or topics from the table tohelp you while youre listening. 3.While listening, fill in the blanks. It can helpyou.,Task 6,While- listening : Listen to Part 2 of the interview , and fill in the
18、 blanks.,1. People from “open” cultures, like the_, tend to use a lot of more _ movements. People in more “closed” cultures, like the _, _ Europeans and even _, dont use hand movements nearly as much.,Italians,hand,Japanese,Northern,Americans,Task 7,Post listening: Discuss and complete the table (ch
19、eck).,Americans,x,x,x,x,x,Task 6,While listening: Listen to Part 2 of the interview , and fill in the blanks.,Americans,2. People from _ cultures usually look more _ at the person they are speaking to. The _and _often look at people to start _and then they look_. People from Eastern cultures like _,
20、 _ look directly at the other person. To look at someone very directly is extremely _.,“open”,directly,British,Japan,Americans,with,away,never,rude,Task 7,Post listening: Discuss and complete the table (check).,Americans,x,x,x,x,x,x,x,x,Task 6,While listening: Listen to Part 2 of the interview , and
21、 fill in the blanks.,3. People from _cultures are more likely to _ or speak at the _ time as the other person. In _ cultures, one person starts speaking _ when the other has _. In a place like _, people _ interrupt each other. They also wait for a while before _, so there is more _ _ .,“open”,interr
22、upt,same,speaking,“closed”,never,only,stopped,Japan,silence,Task 7,Post listening: Discuss and complete the table (check).,Americans,x,x,x,x,x,x,x,x,x,x,Task 6,Listen to Part 2 of the interview , and fill in the blanks.,4. _and _ people seem more polite than _ and people from _ cultures. _ people us
23、ually use “please”, “Thank you” and “Im sorry” more often. In _, it is very important to say “please” and “thank you” even for the _ things. If you dont, it sounds very rude. In some other cultures, like _ cultures, to say “please” and “thank you” all the time sounds a bit false.,Japanese,Americans,
24、British,British,Latin,Britain,smallest,Latin,Task 7,Post listening: Discuss and complete the table (check).,Americans,x,x,x,x,x,x,x,x,x,x,x,x,x,x,x,Comparing Cultures,Politeness costs nothing but gains everything.,礼貌不用花钱，却能赢得一切。,When in Rome, do as the Romans do.,入乡随俗.,Summary:,Guessing games,anger,
25、fear,joy,sorrow,contempt轻视,surprise,disgust 厌恶,Different facial expressions show different feelings:,1,2,3,5,4,6,7,disappointed,shy,Swearing （发誓）,thinking,Guessing games,Facial expressions-?,Guessing games,Thumbs up!,Thumbs down!,Bite your nails!,Kiss your hand to sb.!,Make a face!,Keep your fingers
26、 crossed!,Touch your stomach!,Do it!,Turn left and Sit down!,Action show,Homework,1. Write a short report to describe Chinese people. Are they open or closed? Is formal language very different from informal language? (Some information may be available on the Internet).2. Finish Ex 9 on Page 39.,Bye-bye!,
