1、,Unit 1 Getting along with others,Period One Welcome to the unit & Reading,Revision,What does the phrase “get along with” mean? It means having a friendly relationship with other people.,Lead-in,1) What a true friend should be like?,Discussion,A friend is someone who you respect and who respects you
2、 shares your happiness and sorrow is trustworthy, is honest, loving is loyal to you is selfless accepts your differences ,2) Try to think of some proverbs related to friendship.A friend in need is a friend indeed. A life without a friend is a life without a sun. ,Almost everyone wants to make friend
3、s and develop friendships with others. Look at the following illustrations and read the proverb under each one.,Speaking,Friends are t_ of time. It means that when s_ with a good friend, we feel happy and r_ and almost forget the e_ of time.,hieves,taying,elaxed,xistence,The best m_ is an old friend
4、. It means that an old friend k_ you very well. He/She can help point out your a_ and d_.,irror,nows,dvantages,isadvantages,If you can buy a persons friendship, it is not w_ having. It means that true friendship is p_. It is i_ for a person to buy it with money. It is b_ on t_, respect, l_, s_ feeli
5、ngs and so on.,orth,riceless,mpossible,ased,rust,oyalty,hared,True friends have hearts that b_ as one. It means true friends are willing to share their h_ and s_ with each other.,eat,appiness,orrow,1) A friend is a second self. 2) A faithful friend is hard to find.3) A friend is easier lost than fou
6、nd.,朋友乃第二个自我知音难觅 得朋友难，失朋友易,More proverbs about friendship,4) A good friend is my nearest relation. 5) The best mirror is a friends eye. 6) Success has many friends. 7) Poverty tries friends.,良友如至亲朋友的眼睛是最好的镜子成功者朋友多 贫穷考验朋友,8) Without a friend, the world is a wilderness.9) Better without gold than with
7、out friends.10) Without confidence there is no friendship.,没有朋友, 世界成了荒野 宁可没有金钱，不可没有朋友 没有信任就没有友谊,1. Do you have a best friend? Why do you think that he or she is your best friend? 2. How do you get on with your friend(s)? How do you help each other when you have problems?,Group-Discussion,3. Does a f
8、riend always have to a person? What else can be your friend? Why? 4. List some qualities of a person who does not make friends easily.,The slogan of the 2006 World Cup? A time to make friends!,Story telling,Tell a story which happened between you and your best friend.,WHAT IS FRIENDSHIP? I want to f
9、ind the answer to the questionwhat is friendship? When it rains, I think friendship is a small u_. It can give me a piece of clear sky. When I am crying, I think friendship is a white h_. It can wipe my tears dry.,Poem appreciation,mbrella,ankerchief,When I am sad, I think friendship is a w_ word.It
10、 can bring me happiness again. When I am in trouble, I think friendship is a s_ hand. It can help me escape my troubles.,arm,trong,When I sit in a quiet place, I think friendship is a very wonderful feeling. It can not be pulled and torn, because it is in everyones heart. It is therefrom the b_ to t
11、he e_ of our lives.,eginning,nd,Conclusion,Love,Treat our friends with,Language study,get along with sb. 意为“和某人处”。如：1) He doesnt get along with anybody in the office.他和办公室里的其他人相处得不好。2) Tom is an easy-going type of person who gets along well with everyone.汤姆是个随和的人，跟谁都处得来。,get along 还可表示“进展”，“进行”。如：1)
12、 How are you getting along with your English?你英语学得怎么样？2) The business is getting along well.生意经营得不错。,If you can buy a persons friendship, its not worth having. (Page 1)如果友谊能用钱买到，那就不值得拥有。 worth: to have a particular value, especially in money作形容词使用时，通常作表语，后接名词或动名词，解释为“价值”“值的分量”。如： His suggestion is w
13、orth nothing.他的建议没有任何价值。 Our house is worth about $60,000.我们的房子值60 000 美元。,be worth doing/seeing/trying, etc: to be useful or enjoyable to do/see/try, etc Its not as good as his last book but its definitely worth reading.这本书虽没有他最后一本书好，但肯定是值得一读的。 The film is worth seeing twice.这部电影值得再看一遍。, Secrets an
14、d lies & A friendship in trouble,Reading,Friends are thieves of time. The best mirror is an old friend. If you can buy a persons friendship, its not worth having. True friends have hearts that beat as one.,Proverbs about friendship,Do you keep in touch with your friends? Have you ever argued with a
15、good friend? If you had a quarrel with a friend, how would you deal with it? Would you feel embarrassed when you met him again? How would you mend a broken friendship?,Brainstorming,What do you think are the reasons that might lead to a broken friendship? Having little in common Lacking trust Misund
16、erstanding Being jealous of each other Conflicts of interest,Brainstorming,Are the writers of the two letters feeling happy or sad? They are feeling sad. What grade did Sarah get on the math quiz? She got a D. Is Matthew usually a quiet boy? No, he is usually cheerful and outgoing.,Reading,1.What di
17、d Sarah think about the math quiz?She thought it was easy.2.What did Sarah tell Hannah in the girls washroom?She told Hannah how badly she had done in the Maths washroom.,Reading (Part C1),3.Why did Sarah tell Hannah that they werent going to be friends any more?Because she thought that Hannah had t
18、old everyone how badly she had done in the Maths test.4.Why did Matthew get annoyed at Andrew after the match?He thought Matthew played badly and did not try hard enough. As a result, they lost the game.,5.What did Matthew think about losing the match?He thought it wasnt his fault.6.What kind of boy
19、 is Mathew?He is usually cheerful and outgoing.,betrayed,upset,angry,ashamed,How Sarah felt:,Why?,She thought her best friend Hannah didnt keep her secret.,She scored the lowest mark in her class.,She found a piece of paper on her desk that said “Stupid Sarah got a D”.,She thought Sarah didnt keep h
20、er word.,Reading (Part C2),Practice:Read A friendship in trouble, and try to find out Andrews problem and how he feels about it :,angry,guilty,awkward,in a dilemma,He said some really cruel things to Matthew.,His best friend Matthew has stopped talking to him.,Agony Aunt Annie wrote back to the two
21、students. Complete her responses with the words listed below.,determined apologize proud mean betrayed friendship secrets guilty mark match,Dear Sarah, You have every right to feel _ by your friend if she did tell your secret to others, but it seems unlikely that she did. You say that you are best f
22、riends; well, best friends talk about their problems and try to solve them. If she is a good friend, you should _ for blaming her.,betrayed,apologize,If you still have doubts, you should think about why you dont believe her. Was it because you were ashamed of your _ or your behavior? Did you feel je
23、alous of your friends mark? If so, the problem lies with you, not her. Try not to sound too _of yourself when discussing your marks in front of others.,mark,proud,However, if you feel that she is very bad at keeping _ and likes to embarrass you in public, you had better find a new friend.,secrets,De
24、ar Andrew, It seems you need to apologize quickly to avoid losing a good friend! Dont forget that some things are important to people, even when they dont shout about them. The _ was probably very important to Matthew and he felt _ about losing, and bad about not being as gifted at football as you a
25、re.,match,guilty,A football team needs all the players to work together and help each other. Each player should play to their strengths. Shouting at your teammate was unfair and just made him feel worse. Although you both said _ things to each other, one of you has to be first to say sorry.,mean,Don
26、t be stubborn! You say that your _ is as important as football. Well, then you should be _ to get your friendship back. Dont let a small disagreement ruin your friendship. Do not delay. Talk to your friend and Im sure that before long, youll be back playing football together.,friendship,determined,I
27、f you were Sarah or Andrew, would you try to fix the broken friendship with your friend? What would you do to fix it?,Post-reading,If you had a problem with your friend, would you write to an agony aunt? If not, who would you talk to? If you were the agony aunt from the magazine, what advice would y
28、ou give to Sarah?,I feel betrayed by my friend, Hannah. We have been best friends since primary school and spend almost every day with each other. 我感觉被我的朋友汉娜出卖了。我们俩打小学开始就是最要好的朋友，几乎每天相伴。 1）since在这里是介词，表示从一个过去的时间延续至今。如：,Language Points,Unemployment in that country is now at its lowest level since Worl
29、d War . 该国的失业率现在处于第二次世界大战以来的最低水平。 另外，since也可以作副词。如： She left her hometown five years ago. We have not seen her since. 她五年前离开了家乡，从那以后我们就没有再见到她。,since还可以作连词，引导时间状语从句或原因状语从句。如： a. It is just three days since they arrived at the mountain village. 他们到达这个小山村才三天时间。 b. Since you are so busy, perhaps we shou
30、ld ask someone else. 既然你这么忙，或许我们应该问问别人。,2）betray出卖（朋友、国家等）；背（约、信等）。如：She never betrayed her friends. 她从来不出卖朋友。此外，betray还可意为“泄露（秘密）， 密告；露出， 表现（心情、弱点等）。 ”如：a. I will not betray your hiding place to anybody.,我不会向任何人泄露你的藏匿处。b. His eyes betrayed his fear. 他的眼神显示他的恐惧。短语：betray oneself 无意中暴露本性；现出真面目,2. I m
31、ust have sounded very proud of myself after the test, saying loudly how easy it was and how I was sure to get a good mark. 考试之后，我的口气听上去想必很是自鸣得意， 因为我嚷嚷着说那次考试有多么容易， 还说我肯定能够取得好的成绩。,“must have+过去分词”结构表示对过去的肯定推测。如：,a. Jacks new car must have cost around 20,000. 杰克的新车肯定是花费了大约两万英镑。 b. She must have been be
32、autiful when she was young. 她年轻时一定很漂亮。,注意：如果表示否定的推测，则用cannot。如： a. It cannot have been true. 这不可能是真的。 b. He cant have met me. 他不可能见过我。,3. I didnt feel like I was overlooking my studies, but maybe I could work harder in Maths. 我并不觉得自己学习不用心啊， 但也许我应该在数学上加把劲了。overlook 意为 “（因为疏忽）没有注意 到，看漏；俯视; 视而不见, 不予理会;
33、不予考虑”。 如：,He was overlooked when they set about choosing a new manager. 选任新经理时没有考虑他。,4. Afterwards, I went out to the playground. I was determined to be cheerful, but Hannah sensed something was wrong. 后来，我去了操场。 我决心要让自己开心一点，但汉娜还是感觉到哪儿有些不对劲。be determined to do something意为“下决心做某事”或“决定做某事”。如：,She is de
34、termined to become a doctor. 她决心当医师。,determined意为“坚定的， 有决心的， 毅然的”。如：,a. He looked determined. 他看起来很坚决。 b. Mr Robert is a determined campaigner for animal rights. 罗伯特先生是一位坚定的动物权益保护活动者。,5. How they must have laughed behind my back! 他们在我背后想必是笑得合不拢嘴了！,这是一个感叹句型，感叹句可直接用“How+陈述句” 来表达。又如： How I regret wasti
35、ng the weekend watching TV! 我真后悔把整个周末浪费在看电视上。,句中mean是一个形容词，意思是“刻薄的， 刻毒的，卑鄙的”。另外，mean用作形容词时还常有“吝啬的”的意思。如：a. Cheating such an old man was a mean thing to do. 欺骗这样一个老人实在很卑鄙。 b. She is not generous at all. She is always mean with his money. 她一点儿也不大方，在金钱方面总是很吝啬。,6. He kept on saying really mean things to
36、 hurt me. 他不断地说那些很刻薄的话来伤害我。,7. I feel really guilty because I said some really cruel things too, but I cant stand seeing our team lose. 我现在感到很内疚，因为我也说了一些很冷酷的话，可我就是无法容忍我们队输球。句中的stand意思是“忍受”。英语中bear, stand, put up with等都有“忍受”的意思。如：,a. I cannot stand people shouting and arguing. 我无法忍受别人大喊大叫，吵吵嚷嚷。,b. Li
37、nda was afraid she would not be able to bear the pain. 琳达怕自己忍受不了疼痛。 c. She is not going to put up with her brothers bad temper any more. She is going to talk with him.她不再忍受她哥哥的坏脾气了。 她要跟他谈谈。,8. Yesterday, I saw him talking to another boy, Peter, and I cannot help wondering if he wants Peter to be his
38、 best friend instead of me. 昨天，我看到他和另外一个叫彼得的男生在说话，我禁不住在想，他是不是希望彼得取代我，成为他最要好的朋友呢？,短语cannot help doing something意思是“忍不住， 情不自禁”。如： a. I could not help laughing when I saw his haircut. 当我看到他剃的头时，忍不住笑了。 b. He just cant help it. He has to obey orders. 他没有办法，他必须执行命令。,9. I told my brother about the fight, b
39、ut he said Mathew is just angry and perhaps a little bitter because I am really athletic and good at football and that I had better find another friend. 我将我们俩吵架的事告诉我了哥哥，但我哥哥说，马修只是生气了，也许还有点怀恨在心，因为我确实有运动细胞，足球踢得好；我哥哥说我最好再找个朋友。,1）本句中，he said后接两个宾语从句，即Mathew is just angry and perhaps a little bitter beca
40、use I am really athletic and good at football 和 that I had better find another friend。 注意， 第二个宾语从句的引导词that不能省略。如：,My father warned me that I had to go back before 10 oclock and that he would punish me if I was late. 我父亲警告我说， 必须十点前回来，迟了就要受罚。,You should not be bitter about not getting that job. I am s
41、ure you will find a better one soon.不要因为没有得到那份工作而感到苦恼。我相信你很快就会找到一份更好的工作的。 b. If he failed, it would be a bitter disappointment for his parents. 如果他失败的话，对他父母来说将是很痛苦的、失望的事。,2）形容词bitter的意思是“怀恨的”，此外，还有“痛苦的；苦的”的意思。 如：,10. For example, sometimes when he leaves the apartment to play football, Amanda and he
42、r friend, Sharon, will be sitting on the sofa, talking. 比如，有时候他离开公寓去踢足球，阿曼达和她朋友莎伦就会坐在沙发上聊天。talking为-ing形式作伴随状语，表示两个动作sitting和talking同时进行。如：,They were sitting on the bench, chatting and laughing. 他们坐在沙发上，有说有笑。,11. When asked they usually hesitate before responding, My best friend?. 当问及这个问题的时候，他们往往在回答
43、之前都要犹豫一下：“我最好的朋友？”句中when asked 相当于“when they were asked”。如：,When asked why he did it, he simply said, “Because I love it.” 当问及他为什么要这样做时，他只是说：“因为我喜欢。,12. Girls who have been asked can usually answer the question without hesitation. 当女生被问及这个问题的时候，她们往往能够不假思索地做出回答。,短语without hesitation意思是“毫不犹豫地”。如： When
44、 he saw the little boy drowning in the river, he jumped into the water without hesitation. 当看到那个男孩溺水时，他毫不犹豫地跳入河中。,13. Friendship between girls are usually based on shared feelings and support, but friendships between boys are based on shared activities or interests.女生之间的友谊通常基于共同的情感和相互支持，而男生之间的友谊则建立在
45、共同的活动或者兴趣爱好之上。,base sth. on/upon sth. 意思是“把置于基础上；将以为根据”。如：,a. He bases his arguments on facts. 他的议论以事实为根据。 b. Their friendship was based upon mutual respect. 他们的友谊建立在相互尊重的基础之上。 c. This novel is based on historical facts. 这部小说以历史事实为根据。,14. Regardless of what these friendships are based upon, shared f
46、eelings or activities, the important thing to remember is that both of them are friendships. 不管男生和女生的友谊是建立在什么基础之上， 共同拥有的情感也好，共同参与的活动也好，需要记住的最重要的一点是：这两者都是友谊。,短语 regardless of 意思是“不管，无论”。又如：,a. The law requires treatment for all, regardless of race, religion or sex. 法律要求人人平等，不管是什么种族，宗教或性别。 b. Ill go regardless of the weather. 不管天气如何我都要去。,
