1、三四十年，自己的父亲长期忽视家里人，比喻说，家里人的谈话根本不听，希望做的事情根本不做，对你家里人总是职责，轻视，会出现什么什么状态？For thirty or forty years, my father has neglected his family members for a long time. For example, he does not listen to the conversations of the family members, does not do what he wants to do, and always takes responsibility and c
2、ontempt for your family members. What kind of state will appear?It sounds like your father has been emotionally neglecting your family for a long time. This can have a number of negative effects on the family, including:听起来你父亲在情感上忽视你的家庭已经很久了。这可能会对家庭产生许多负面影响，包括：Feelings of isolation and loneliness: F
3、amily members may feel like they are not important to their father and that he does not care about them. This can lead to feelings of isolation, loneliness, and sadness.孤立和孤独的感觉：家庭成员可能会觉得他们对父亲不重要，他也不关心他们。这会导致孤立、孤独和悲伤的感觉。Low self-esteem: Family members may start to believe that they are not worthy of
4、 love and attention. This can lead to low self-esteem and a negative self-image.低自尊：家庭成员可能开始认为他们不值得爱和关注。这可能导致低自尊和消极的自我形象。Anger and resentment: Family members may start to feel angry and resentful towards their father. This can lead to conflict and tension in the family.愤怒和怨恨：家庭成员可能会开始对父亲感到愤怒和怨恨。这可能导
5、致家庭中的冲突和紧张。Depression: Family members may start to experience symptoms of depression, such as sadness, hopelessness, and fatigue. This can make it difficult to function in everyday life.抑郁症：家庭成员可能会开始出现抑郁症状，如悲伤、绝望和疲劳。这可能使其难以在日常生活中发挥作用。If you are experiencing any of these effects, it is important to s
6、eek help. There are a number of resources available to help families cope with emotional neglect, such as counseling and support groups.如果您遇到任何这些影响，寻求帮助很重要。有许多资源可以帮助家庭应对情感忽视，例如咨询和支持小组。Here are some things you can do to help yourself and your family cope with emotional neglect:以下是您可以做的一些事情来帮助自己和家人应对情
7、感忽视：Talk to your father about how you are feeling. This can be a difficult conversation, but it is important to try to communicate with your father about how his behavior is affecting you.和你父亲谈谈你的感受。这可能是一次艰难的对话，但重要的是要尝试与您的父亲沟通他的行为如何影响您。Seek professional help. A therapist can help you and your family
8、 understand the effects of emotional neglect and develop coping mechanisms.寻求专业帮助。治疗师可以帮助您和您的家人了解情绪忽视的影响并制定应对机制。Join a support group. There are a number of support groups available for families who are experiencing emotional neglect. These groups can provide a safe space to share your experiences an
9、d connect with others who understand what you are going through.加入支持小组。有许多支持小组可供遭受情感忽视的家庭使用。这些小组可以提供安全的空间来分享您的经验，并与了解您正在经历的其他人联系。Take care of yourself. It is important to make sure that you are taking care of yourself physically and emotionally. This includes eating healthy, getting enough sleep, an
10、d exercising regularly. It is also important to find healthy ways to cope with stress, such as talking to a friend, listening to music, or spending time in nature.照顾好自己。重要的是要确保您在身体和情感上照顾好自己。这包括健康饮食、充足的睡眠和定期锻炼.找到健康的方式来应对压力也很重要，例如与朋友交谈、听音乐或在大自然中度过时光。Remember, you are not alone. There are people who ca
11、n help you and your family cope with emotional neglect.请记住，您并不孤单。有些人可以帮助您和您的家人应对情感忽视。Emotional neglect can be treated with therapy, support groups, and self-care. Therapy can help you understand the effects of emotional neglect and develop coping mechanisms. Support groups can provide a safe space t
12、o share your experiences and connect with others who understand what you are going through. Self-care can help you take care of yourself physically and emotionally.情绪忽视可以通过治疗、支持小组和自我护理来治疗。治疗可以帮助您了解情绪忽视的影响并发展应对机制。支持小组可以提供一个安全的空间来分享您的经验并与了解您正在经历的其他人联系。自我保健可以帮助你在身体和情感上照顾好自己。Here are some specific thing
13、s you can do to treat emotional neglect:以下是您可以采取的一些具体措施来治疗情绪忽视：Talk to a therapist. A therapist can help you understand the effects of emotional neglect and develop coping mechanisms.与治疗师交谈。治疗师可以帮助您了解情绪忽视的影响并制定应对机制。Join a support group. There are a number of support groups available for people who h
14、ave experienced emotional neglect. These groups can provide a safe space to share your experiences and connect with others who understand what you are going through.加入支持小组。有许多支持小组可供经历过情感忽视的人使用。这些小组可以提供安全的空间来分享您的经验，并与了解您正在经历的其他人联系。Take care of yourself. It is important to make sure that you are takin
15、g care of yourself physically and emotionally. This includes eating healthy, getting enough sleep, and exercising regularly. It is also important to find healthy ways to cope with stress, such as talking to a friend, listening to music, or spending time in nature.照顾好自己。重要的是要确保您在身体和情感上照顾好自己。这包括健康饮食、充
16、足的睡眠和定期锻炼.找到健康的方式来应对压力也很重要，例如与朋友交谈、听音乐或在大自然中度过时光。Remember, you are not alone. There are people who can help you heal from the effects of emotional neglect.请记住，您并不孤单。有些人可以帮助你从情感忽视的影响中恢复过来。Here are some additional tips for treating emotional neglect:以下是治疗情绪忽视的一些额外提示：Be patient with yourself. Healing f
17、rom emotional neglect takes time. Dont expect to feel better overnight.对自己要有耐心。从情感忽视中治愈需要时间。不要指望一夜之间感觉好些。Be kind to yourself. Forgive yourself for any mistakes you made in the past. You were doing the best you could with the information you had at the time.善待自己。原谅自己过去犯的任何错误。你正在尽你所能地利用你当时掌握的信息。Be com
18、passionate with yourself. Understand that you are not alone. Many people have experienced emotional neglect.对自己要有同情心。明白你并不孤单。许多人经历过情感上的忽视。Be hopeful. With time and effort, you can heal from the effects of emotional neglect and live a happy and fulfilling life.要充满希望。通过时间和努力，您可以从情感忽视的影响中治愈，过上幸福而充实的生活。
19、在这种情况下,30-40年长期被父亲忽视与轻视,家庭成员很可能会出现以下几种状态:1. 自卑和缺乏自信。长期受到父亲的责骂和轻视,很容易让人产生自卑的心理,觉得自己没有价值,缺乏自信。2. 情绪不稳定。在这样的环境下成长,很难培养出积极稳定的情绪。容易产生抑郁、焦虑等负面情绪,情绪起伏较大。3. 依赖性强。由于没能得到父亲的关心与认可,很容易产生强烈的依赖心理,需要不停地得到别人的认可与关心。4. 被动和缺乏主见。在父亲的霸道统治下,习惯了被动地接受安排,难以形成自己的主见和判断力。5. 双标思维。一方面渴望得到父亲的认可,一方面又产生较强的怨恨情绪。这种矛盾的双标思维也会一直影响。6. 交往
20、障碍。长期处在这样的家庭环境,不利于形成良好的人际交往能力和技巧。在外界社交中可能显得比较 introvert和敏感。7. 亲子关系疏离。与父亲的疏离和紧张关系会一直延续,很难建立密切的亲子关系。这也会无形中影响自身的育儿观和亲子关系。综上,长期处在父亲忽视与轻视之下,除了对情绪和性格产生较大影响外,亲子关系的疏离也是这种家庭状态产生的一个重要后果。这需要花较长时间与精力才能有所修复和改善。如果一个父亲长期忽视家里人，可能会导致以下的状态：家庭成员之间的沟通和信任会减少，导致疏远和冲突。家庭成员可能会感到孤独、被忽视、不被尊重和不被爱，导致自卑、沮丧和焦虑。家庭成员可能会寻求外界的关注和支持，比如朋友、同事或者恋人，有时甚至会出现婚外情或者离婚。家庭成员可能会发展出一些不良的习惯或者行为，比如吸烟、酗酒、赌博或者暴力，来缓解压力或者发泄情绪。家庭成员可能会对父亲产生怨恨、恐惧或者仇恨，导致对父亲的反抗或者逃避。
