1、辣妈辣妹1. Whats the central idea of the story?This movie about a pair of opposite taste, the habits of mother and daughter, in a strange Friday morning to find each others bodies for hair body - that is, mom turned out to be the appearance of the daughter, daughter becomes a mother. Helpless, they had
2、to walk into each others lives: mom is my daughters school, my daughter to replace my mother do a psychiatrist. They know each other from different angles, also let mother and daughter to learn to forgive each other, but the premise is that they must be in front of strangers trail before trying to c
3、hange back. In the film, the daughter of my mother always dont understand high school, and tried to control her daughters life, dont allow his daughter to participate in the band, for the daughter often get F, and always say “if I were you, Im sure I will be very hard. I can pass all the exams.” Dau
4、ghter, also dont understand mother, what she tried to explain to my mother, and always think mother is happy, because she can do anything you want to do.Everybody has own life, also will do this not because we are stubborn, but you dont know the truth. The mother and daughter like real life for most
5、 of the children of the familys relationship with parents. Parents give children want everything, but do not understand, so in their own way to give them. But the children dont understand, since gave everything, why is limited, so we hold their own attitude to get along with.When they swap identity,
6、 they really didnt know the each others life, and in her position you may do worse than she, like the mother was hurt by daughter friend examination, by the help, she malicious to revenge .When the noise is no longer the noise, when his stepfather and is not a bad father, they really realized the li
7、ves of others, and what is the most important thing.2.What the nature of the conflict between tess and anna?In fact , from my view ,there have no real conflict between tess and anna . such namely misunderstand conflict is a way of love. Including the love mother to daughter and the love daughter to
8、mother. The question between both of them is that the lack of communication and understanding . tess loves anna , but she doesnt have time to show her love to anna , so every time tess talk with anna severely.and eagerly, although tess cares about anna, but anna can not accept this way and then keep
9、 away from her mother .tess want anna to study hard , but she does not what happened to anna at school. So many misunderstanding work out between them. Actually ,all these because they deeply love each other, care about each other so much . And their love does not communication timely,so the conflic
10、tion happen.3. Is it really difficult to conduct normal communications between parents and children?I dont think so. The communication between parents and children is not as difficult as we think. We always meet with difficulties, a large part of the reason is that we use the method is wrong. If we
11、can use the right methods, mutual respect, mutual understanding, can consider a problem from the Angle of each other, so, communication is not a difficult thing.Like the mother and daughter in the movie, they dont know each other before, only considering their own difficulties. Therefore, there is a
12、lways a war between them, no communication between them. Parents give children want everything, but do not understand, so in their own way to give them. But the children dont understand, since gave everything, why is limited, so we hold their own attitude to get along with.When they swap identity, t
13、hey really didnt know the each others life, and in her position you may do worse than she, like the mother was hurt by daughter friend examination, by the help, she malicious to revenge.When the noise is no longer the noise, when his stepfather and is not a bad father, they really realized the lives
14、 of others, and what is the most important thing.4. Do you have similar problems and how do you deal with them?Sometimes I will encounter difficulties and parents communication. In the film mother dont understand her daughters band, dont understand her daughter in the school of life, dont understand
15、 her daughters interpersonal relationship. In real life, we often encounter a similar phenomenon. For example, my mother wont let I often go out to play with my friends, she thought of my friends have a bad guy, she also dont let myself to try new things, she is always not trust, she always think I
16、am too small, and the society too many bad people, children are simple, is the vulnerable groups, vulnerable to bullying, in the absence of adult guardianship go out to play, easy to produce risk.The solution is to calm the communication with their parents. Ill try to transposition thinking, if I we
17、re a mother, its what Im worried about, is afraid he met any danger, to be afraid that he met the bad guys, then a solution to the problem are proposed according to their parents worry about a thing, let they believe that their childs ability to ensure their safety. Sometimes parents cant understand
18、 I do, they dont understand our favorite songs, they dont like our clothes type, even they dont agree with the way we deal with the problem. This time, I will let parents recalling their young, they had not understood how and when we like when they give us a chance to request their parents. Anyway,
19、have a problem I will not quarrel, I will try to communicate, find a solution.5. How can you make the role-shift work under normal circumstances?I think stand in the perspective of the other problem is very important. Think of themselves as the other party, for example, if it is mom, what would she
20、do? If mother is here, she is really thinking. Role reversal, I will completely forget the self, himself as another person, use each others ideas to solve the problem, in each others way to talk, to accept each others work, to experience different life.Completely imitate each other is not an easy th
21、ing. Experience the lives of others is a very interesting thing. Through the role transformation, I think I will have a lot of harvest. The biggest harvest is learned to mutual understanding and communication. In fact, everyones life is not look so good, everyone has their own troubles, to kids trou
22、bles may not less. Parents give children want everything, but do not understand, so in their own way to give them. But the children dont understand, since gave everything, why is limited, so we hold their own attitude to get along with. When they swap identity, they really didnt know the each others
23、 life, and in her position you may do worse than she, like the mother was hurt by daughter friend examination, by the help, she malicious to revenge. when the noise is no longer the noise, when his stepfather and is not a bad father, they really realized the lives of others, and what is the most imp
24、ortant thing. So, communication is a very important thing, role transformation need to communicate.6. How do the conflicts emerge and accumulate?When children are small, they dont have their own opinion, its always rely on their parents, this time is not after the war. But when the child grew, and p
25、uberty, the children begin to have their own ideas, they dont agree with their parents, to express their own opinions, reflect their position, they have their own friends, their careers, these are not the parents can understand. So, contradictions appear, more and more different opinions, the war br
26、oke out.The causes of conflict is the parents and children dont communicate. Everybody has own life, also will do this not because we are stubborn, but you dont know the truth.The mother and daughter like real life for most of the children of the familys relationship with parents. Parents give child
27、ren want everything, but do not understand, so in their own way to give them. But the children dont understand, since gave everything, why is limited, so we hold their own attitude to get along with.When they swap identity, they really didnt know the each others life, and in her position you may do
28、worse than she, like the mother was hurt by daughter friend examination, by the help, she malicious to revenge.When the noise is no longer the noise, when his stepfather and is not a bad father, they really realized the lives of others, and what is the most important thing.7. Whatre your thanks and
29、complaints for your parents?I want to thank my parents gave me life, their selfless pay, they love me unconditionally. They use their words and deeds education I, not only care about my health of body, also attention to the cultivation of our moral character. They gave a lot for my education, I have
30、 the chance to receive better education. My parents always want to give me the best of things, hope I have the happiness. Although my parents are ordinary people, to me, they are the most important person. In life, when I meet difficulties, there are my parents give me help, let me on the road to su
31、ccess.Of course, on the other hand, I also want to complain about my parents, sometimes they dont understand me. They always according to own idea to make a decision, they dont understand the actual situation. The childs world and the adults world is different, we have our own principles, they alway
32、s destroy our convention. Sometimes, I also want to understand their feelings, want to communicate with them, however, parents think that they have the right to make a decision for me, they help me do the decision is the best, they helped me choose the growth of the road is the most suitable. But, m
33、y hobby is different and their choices, I cant change the idea of parents, this let a person very trouble, if they could be like in the movie, can convert identity, let them experience of my life.8. Material affluence and mental poverty: the dilemma that the Chinese parents are facing.With the chang
34、e of the economic conditions good, each family can give children more and more material resources, they will be able to spend more money to investment to the child, the child eat what can meet the parents, parents can also buy expensive clothes for children, meet the desire of children, the children
35、s life is much better than their parents when I was young.However, parents can give their children the spirit of wealth is very few. They can buy a lot of toys for children, but seldom have parents to accompany children to play a day, more and more children grew up in the company of a nanny, parents
36、 are busy doing their own work all day, they cant separate the energy to consider the child to want what, children have what change, when to eat together with your child.After the child was in the mind of your own parents and children of war will follow. Parents give the children enough money, but I
37、 dont teach them how to correct the use of money, children are likely to do the wrong thing, a waste of money, when the children ran huge catastrophes, parents just detection, has been a long time not talk with their children.So, Chinese parents should pay more attention to the communication with children, dont use the material instead of spirit. The spirit of the communication is very important, communication can let children grow up healthy, communication can let know how much parents love their children, our family harmony happy.
