1、 谈结婚 郁达夫 前些日子，林语堂先生似乎曾说过(1)女子的唯一事业，是在结婚，现在一位法国大文豪来沪，对去访问他的新闻记者的谈话之中，又似乎说，男子欲成事业，应该不要结婚。 华盛顿欧文(2)是一个独身的男子，但见闻短记里的一篇歌颂妻子的文章(3)，却写的那么优美可爱。同样查而斯兰姆(4)也是独身的男子，而爱丽亚的独身者的不平(5)一篇，又冷嘲热讽，将结婚的男女和婚后必然的果子小孩们等，俏皮到了那一步田地。 究竟是结婚的好呢，还是不结婚的好？这问题似乎同先有鸡还是先有鸡蛋一样(6)，常常有人提起，而也常常没有人解决过的问题(7)。照大体看来，想租房子的时候，是无眷莫问的，想做官的时候，又是朝里
2、无裙(8)莫做官的，想写文章的时候，是独身者(9)不能写我的妻的，凡此种种似乎都是结婚的好。可是要想结婚，第一要有钱，第二要有闲，第三要有职，这潘驴(10)的五个条件，却也不容易办到(11)。更何况结婚之后， “儿子自己要来(12) ”，在这世界人口过剩，经济恐慌，教育破产，世风不古的时候，万一不慎，同兰姆所说的一样，儿子们去上了断头台(13)，那真是连祖宗三代的楣都要倒尽，那里还有什么“官人请！娘子请！”的唱随之乐(14) 可说呢？ 左思右想，总觉得结婚也不好的，不结婚也是不好的。 A Chat about Marriage Yu Dafu The other day, Mr. Lin Yu
3、tang said something to the effect that womens only career lies in matrimony. Now, an eminent French writer declared at a press interview after arriving in Shanghai that men should stay bachelors if they want to achieve success in life. Washington Irving was a confirmed bachelor, but in his Sketch Bo
4、ok there is an article extolling the wife as a graceful and lovely life-long partner. Charles Lamb, also a single man, in A Bachelors Complaint of the Behaviour of Married People, one of his essays signed “Elia”, speaks mockingly of married people with their inevitable postnuptial fruitsthe children
5、. Marriage or no marriage, which is more desirable? That sounds like the chicken-and- egg question, which, though often discussed, remains a perpetual puzzle. Generally speaking, one who has no family dependants is not supposed to rent a house, one who has no petticoat influence in the government sh
6、ould refrain from becoming an official, an unmarried male writer is in no position to writer about “my wife”. All these seem to hint at the advantage of marriage. But, to get married, you need to have five perquisites, namely, money, leisure, employment, good looks and potentness, of which all are n
7、ot always available. What is more, after your marriage, your offspring will come to this world of themselves. And in a world with overpopulation, economic crisis, educational bankruptcy and deteriorating public morals, they may, just as Charles Lamb says, through their own acts of indiscretion, be sent to the gallows. With such a terrible misfortune befalling your family, how could you still have wedded bliss to speak of? Thinking the matter over and over again, I cannot but come to the conclusion that neither matrimony nor bachelorship has anything to recommend itself. By Zhang Peiji
