1、5 Reasons Why You Shouldnt Date an Older WomanPerhaps Ashton Kutcher would be the best person to write this article, but were guessing hes sitting drunk at some upscale 高档的 bar in Sunset Boulevard 日落大道 to bother about anything else than the fact that his marriage with Demi Moore, several years senio
2、r to him, is about to end. But, if he were to dispense 施与 advice on this topic this is what he would say:Unequal expectationsA young man assumes 承受 that the older woman comes with a set of past emotional baggage while the woman thinks the man is out to broaden 拓宽his experience in the dating game. A
3、relationship based on these assumptions假设 cannot really even begin in earnest 认真 unless both partners can overcome such prejudices 偏见.Generation gap 差距The 20-year-old guy will never understand why she is not interested in his favourite Transformers 变形金刚 series while shell wonder what is wrong with A
4、BBA songs 1. And these are just examples from popular culture. At each step, overcoming the generation step can be an arduous 艰巨的 task 任务 for both people without any solution 解决方法 in sight.Masked 隐蔽的 reasonsYou may be in the relationship to score with the neighbourhood aunty 老大娘 and brag 吹牛 about it
5、 with your friends, but the aunty will have a whole set of reasons that she will never be able to talk about with you. This is because she feels youre immature 未成熟的 to understand her problems. Also, she doesnt want to use you as a crutch 拐杖, but rather as a tool. If you begin to fall for her, consid
6、er the affair doomed 注定的.Not living up 快乐的生活Because of all her previous 先前的 experiences, a woman is bound to 一定会 look at her latest man with a little bit of exasperation 恼怒. It is very difficult for the man to live up to the best standards of all her previous attachments 爱情, the yardstick 尺度 by whic
7、h shes subconsciously 下意识的 judging him. The worst mistake the guy can make is defend 辩护 himself by using his own young age as an excuse for his inexperience in dealing with issues in the relationship. It is important to broaden and hold that vision when youre in a relationship with an older woman.Ac
8、ceptability 可接受性Remember how three best friends had to break their friendship when Akshaye Khanna confessed 公开 his love for a much older Dimple Kapadia in Dil Chahta Hai? The truth is that society judges us for all our relationship choices and dating an older woman is right at the top of the never-a
9、ttempt-to-do 永不尝试去做 list. Going down this road will only lead to social isolation 隔离 and unless youre strong enough to bear the jibes 嘲弄, youll become a wreck 落魄者.While not all May-November relationships 忘年交、恋 turn into a wreck 破毁物, it is important to know that most of them have a very slight chance of working, especially in a conservative 保守的 society like India. Its a minefield 雷区 that needs careful navigation 导航 every waking second of your life.1、ABBA 是瑞典的流行组合，成立于1973年。乐队名称来自于四名成员的姓名前字母的缩写的组合 Bjorn Ulvaeus、Benny Andersson 、Agnetha Faltskog、 Anni-Frid Lyngstad
