1、The Positive Meaning Of Love,制作：,Love means that I know the person I love. Im aware of the many sides of the other person not just the beautiful side but also the limitations, inconsistencies and faults. I have an awareness of the others feelings and thoughts, and I experience something of the core
2、of that person. I can penetrate social masks and roles and see the other person on a deeper level.,爱就意味着了解所爱的人。能够认识到这个人多个方面不仅仅是美好的一面，还有他的局限，他的矛盾之处和他的缺点。要看到对方的情感、思想，感觉他的内心，要能够透过他在社交场合的表现和他的社会角色而看到他内心的深处。,Love means that I care about the welfare of the person I love. To the extent that it is genuine,
3、my caring is not possessive, nor does it hold the other person back. On the contrary, my caring frees both of us. If I care about you, Im concerned about your growth, and I hope you will become all that you can become,爱就意味着关心所爱之人的幸福。事实上，爱不是占有，也不是束缚。相反，两人都在爱中得到自由。关心一个人就是关心他的成长，希望他可以成为最好的他,Love is ope
4、n. If I love you, I encourage you to reach out and develop other relationships. Although our love for each other and our commitment to each other might prohibit certain actions on our parts, we are not totally and exclusively married to each other. It is a false love that cements one person to anoth
5、er in such a way that he or she is not given room to grow.,爱是包容的。爱一个人，就要鼓励他与他人建立联系。尽管对彼此的爱与承诺不允许我们有某些行为，这种结合也不是全然排他的。两个人密不可分，再无个人发展的余地，这样的爱是不真实、不明智的。,Love is selfish. I can only love you if I genuinely love, value, appreciate, and respect myself. If I am empty, then all I can give you is my emptines
6、s. If I feel that Im complete and worthwhile in myself, then Im able to give to you out of my fullness. One of the best ways for me to give you love is by fully enjoying myself with you.,爱又是自私的。只有真正自爱自重、自赏自尊，才能接受别人。如果自己空虚，那么我能给所爱之人的也只是空虚。如果认为自己是充实的、出色的，那么我就能以自己的充实为所爱之人增光，给对方以爱的最好方法之一就是与所爱之人一起充分体验自己。
7、,Love involves seeing the potential within the person we love. In my love for another, I view her or him as the person she or he can become, while still accepting who and what the person is now. By taking people as they are, we make them worse, but by treating them as if they already were what they
8、ought to be, we help make them better.,人，在接受今日的他的同时，还要了看作明天他会成为的人。视人静止不变，则令其退步，而视其进步发展、如同他的潜力爱就要看到所爱之人身上的内在潜力。爱一个已经发挥，则助其进步。,To sum it up, mature love is union under the condition of preserving ones individuality. In love, two beings become one and yet remain two.,总而言之，成熟的爱就是在保持个体独立条件下的双方结合。在爱情中，两个人变成了一个人同时还保持着两个独立的个体。,Thats all Thank you,
