1、学号：1132207毕业论文（设计）（ 2011 届）题目 The Comparison of Wedding in Chineseand American Cultures.系 部 语言与传播系 专 业 英语 班 级 112班 学生姓名 丁雪姗 成 绩 指导教师 郑艺 完成日期 2014年12月22日 诚信声明本人郑重声明：所呈交的毕业论文（设计）是我个人在导师指导下，由我本人独立完成。有关观点、方法、数据和文献等的引用已在文中指出，并与参考文献相对应。我承诺，论文中的所有内容均真实、可信。如在文中涉及到抄袭或剽窃行为，本人愿承担由此而造成的一切后果及责任。毕业论文（设计）作者签名： 签名日
2、期： 年 月 日摘要摘要内容：本文主要以婚礼为依据，从婚礼上的服饰、仪式、婚礼前的准备工作和音乐四个方面进行对比，从而体现出中国和美国在婚礼上的差异。其次又分析了形成这些差异的原因。主要的原因有三个：思维模式的差异、人生观和价值观的差异以及宗教信仰的差异。随着改革开放的发展，中西方的交流越来越频繁。所以本文通过这些差异的对比，让大家清晰地了解中国和西方国家在婚礼上的差异，从而体现出中西方在文化上的差异。只有这样才能使不同的民族更良好地沟通，也只有这样才能更好地进行跨文化交际和跨文化传播。关键词：中美婚礼 ；差异；文化；跨文化交际；跨文化传播Abstract内容：The article is b
3、ased on the wedding. It is from four angles to narrate the differences between Chinese wedding and American wedding. I will go with an idea to contrast the costume, the ceremony, the preparation of the wedding and the music in Chinese and American weddings. And then I will display the reasons of for
4、ming these differences which are the different thought patterns, different philosophy and values and different religious belief between Chinese and American people. We will understand the differences and the reasons mentioned above clearly through these comparisons. In my opinion, the purpose of kno
5、wing the differences of China and America is to make the different nations communicate better. And only in this way can we do better in the intercultural communication and the cross-cultural transmission.Key words: Chinese and American wedding; difference; intercultural communication; cross-cultural
6、 transmissionContents Introduction11.1 The Significance of Wedding11.2 The Origin of Chinese Wedding11.3 The Origin of American Wedding.2 The Comparison of Wedding Between Chinese and American Cultures.32.1 The Differences of Costume in Chinese and American Wedding.32.1.1 Costume in Chinese Wedding3
7、2.1.2 Costume in American Wedding42.2 The Differences of Ceremony in Chinese and American Wedding.52.2.1 Ceremony in Chinese Wedding52.2.2 Ceremony in American Wedding.62.3 The Differences of Preparation before Chinese and American Wedding.72.3.1 Preparation before Chinese Wedding.72.3.2 Preparation
8、 before American Wedding82.4 The Differences of Music in Chinese and American Wedding.92.4.1 Music in Chinese and American Wedding.9 The Reasons of Forming These Differences.103.1 The Difference of Thought Patterns Between Chinese and American Cultures.103.2 The Difference of Philosophy and Values B
9、etween Chinese and American Cultures.113.3 The Difference of Religious Belief Between Chinese and American Cultures.11 Conclusion121 Introduction1.1 The Significance of WeddingWedding is a legitimate or a religious ceremony. It is for celebrating the beginning of a marriage. Each country and each na
10、tion has their own traditional wedding. Wedding is the most important ceremony in our whole life. There are three influential wedding in the world: Confucianism wedding; Hindu wedding and Christian wedding. Confucianism wedding is a traditional wedding of China and the Christian wedding is a traditi
11、on wedding of America. In Christianity, there is a clear significance of marriage. It is said that marriage is a decree from God. In my opinion, marriage is a new life for people who love their lovers and the wedding is a ceremony for people to verify their sweet affection.1.2 The Origin of Chinese
12、WeddingThe origin of Chinese wedding is from a myth and legend. It is said that in remote antiquity, there was likely to be some heavy flooding, almost all animals and human died except Nuwa and Fuxi. The God of Venus who is an immortal of Chinese ancient mythology asked them to get married to repro
13、duce human, but both of them disagreed with this because they were brother and sister. However, if they didnt get married, mankind would deracinate. At the same time, Nuwa and Fuxi came up with a method that if they can connect the bamboos which were cut down and then they would get married. It was
14、unexpected that those bamboos were connected. But they were still not willing to marry each other. Therefore, they thought out another way that if two millstones which rolled down from two mountains rolled together and then they would get married. Sure enough, the two millstones rolled together. But
15、 they also didnt want to get married. Finally, Nuwa figured out a way that Nuwa ran first and then if Fuxi caught up with Nuwa they would get married. However Fuxi cant 2overtake Nuwa. Fuxi met a turtle afterwards and the turtle taught him that he can run oppositely to catch up with Nuwa. Fuxi did w
16、hat the turtle told him and he overtook Nuwa eventually. In the end, they got married. Chinese wedding was taking shape.1.3 The Origin of American WeddingWhen mentioning the origin of American wedding, we must first talk about the origin of Western wedding because American culture is influenced by W
17、estern cultures. The origin of western wedding is a legend. It is from the Bible of Christianity. It is said that God created world in seven days. Jehovah God made a man named Adam with mud at the sixth days and blew some breath to him. Then Adam was alive suddenly. Jehovah God built the Garden of E
18、den and asked Adam not to eat the fruitages of wisdom. Afterwards, Jehovah God wanted to make a spouse to help Adam, so he made a woman called Eve with one of Adams rib. Since then Adam and Eve lived in the Garden of Eden happily. According to the original idea of Bible, that era is the golden age o
19、f human. However they couldnt resist the lure from a snake and they ate the forbidden fruits. They understood the shame and they began to love each other. Ultimately Jehovah God realized that both of them went against with his order. Jehovah God was very angry and dislodged them from the Garden of E
20、den. Since then there had appeared the ethnic group with love, enmity and warfare. From the discrimination mentioned above, people in primitive times got married with no more love and responsibility. With the development of social productivity and the perfection of political system, marriage had app
21、eared. Western wedding had taken shape progressively. 3The Comparison of Wedding Between Chinese and American Cultures2.1 The Differences of Costume in Chinese and American WeddingIt is obvious that costume in Chinese wedding and costume in American wedding is as different as chalk and cheese. For e
22、xample, the color and the style of Chinese wedding costumes are different from Americans. Now let me demonstrate this contention.2.1.1 Costume in Chinese WeddingAt the mention of the costume in Chinese wedding, we have to date back to ancient China. In Zhou Dynasty, people thought that the color of
23、black represented the universe. Therefore, the tone of their costumes at the wedding is black with a little crimson. Its very solemn and simplicity. It is said that in Qin Dynasty, the color of wedding gowns is as same as that in Zhou Dynasty. In Han Dynasty, the color of the wedding dress is like t
24、hat in Zhou and Qin Dynasty. But there are also some differences. The bridegroom and the bride needed to wear the warped shoes and the bride had to adorn the hairpin to comb up her hair. In Sui and Tang Dynasty, the style of wedding gowns is as same as that previously. But the tone of the costumes h
25、ad changed a lot. The bridegroom wore crimson clothes and the bride wore cyan clothes. It seems very jubilant and enthusiastic. In Ming Dynasty, Ming emperor Zhu Yuanzhang made a new institution. When the common people got married, the bridegroom can wear the fake official robe like an officer, the
26、bride can wear a phoenix coronet on her head and wear a red long dress and also wear a robe of rank on her shoulders. It just looks like an empress. Besides, before the bride get into the bridal sedan chair she must wear the red veil to cover her head and embroidered shoes 4on her feet. The tone of
27、all clothes at the wedding is red during that time. The style and tone of wedding gowns in Ming Dynasty is from generation to generation. Since then this kind of wedding gowns has been used for more than 500 years. Nowadays at some traditional weddings, there usually appear phoenix coronet and offic
28、ial robes. In Qing Dynasty, the bridegroom usually wore a skullcap, a long gown and a mandarin jacket like a Manchu. And except phoenix coronet and robes of rank, the bride also wore a long red dress with an embroidered gown. In my opinion, the most beautiful wedding costume is Mings style. It is no
29、t only enthusiastic but also dazzling and charming. Besides, I think all the costumes in each dynasty are also treasures to show about the traditional culture of China. 2.1.2 Costume in American WeddingThe bride in America always wears a wedding dress and the bridegroom wears western-style clothes.
30、It is unbelievable that there are only 200 years for brides to wear white wedding dress(吴国华，2006). The wedding dress was a ceremony dress of Catholic. When people got married they must accept the prayer or the blessing from priest because western people thought that the marriage was an order from Go
31、d and the priest is envoy of God to convey the order. Therefore, the bride had to wear the ceremony dress of Catholic to express that she was pure and honest. However before 19 centuries, the style and tone of the bride wedding dress werent unified. Some of brides wore flaxen long dress, and some of
32、 them wore blue long dress, others wore pink long dress with some jewels on it. In 1840 Victoria wore an 18 feet white wedding dress and was unfolded before everyones eyes, and all people were fascinated by the white wedding dress(吴国华， 2006). Therefore white wedding dress played an important role in
33、 wedding dress of western countries. In addition, the bride had to wear a veil to cover her face. It is because that only in this way can they keep away from the demon. Also it is said that the bridegroom needed to hold a sword on his right side formerly because of dueling with the guy who wanted to
34、 rend the bride away from him. Generally, the traditional costumes of American 5wedding lay stress on the four key points, ”new”; ”old”; ”borrowed” and ”blue”. The”new” means the new white wedding dress, which signifies the beginning of new life. The “old” is the old veil. It means unforgettable lov
35、e and kindness of the brides parents. The “borrowed” is the handkerchief borrowed from the brides best friend to show the precious friendship. The “blue” is the blue satin which means sincere love of the newlyweds. Through discovering the costume in American wedding(潘文晋，2008), we can understand that
36、 the features of western culture are very interesting and historic.2.2 The Differences of Ceremony in Chinese and American WeddingThe ceremony in Chinese and American wedding is different from each other absolutely. In general, ceremony in Chinese wedding is quite lively and jubilant; on the contrar
37、y, the ceremony in American wedding is very quiet and holy. I will refer to some details. 2.2.1 Ceremony in Chinese WeddingThe wedding ceremony is the most important part in wedding. In our country, when the bridegroom picks up the bride from the brides house, it always besets with difficulties. For
38、 example, the family of the bride will not let the bridegroom enter the house except that the bridegroom gives them red paper containing money as a gift; after the bridegroom get into the house, the family of the bride will hide the shoes of the bride in order to stop the bride going out with the br
39、idegroom. And then when they come out of the house, the bride has to step over a brazier and a saddle, which means booming and safe. After that they will get to the bridegrooms house where a wedding ceremony will be held. The toastmaster of wedding ceremony is always a matchmaker of the newly-weds.
40、In ancient China, people always stood for the theory that man is an integral part of nature. Thus there 6are three major ceremonies in wedding ceremony. First, the newly-weds kowtow to the heaven and earth; second, they will kowtow to their parents; thirdly, they will kowtow to each other. It means
41、that newly-weds get the permission of getting married from god and parents. And then the bridegroom and the bride give a cup of tea to their parents. After that their parents also give red packets to them. In the end, the bride gets into the bridal chamber and the bridegroom stays at the banquet to
42、entertain guests with food and liquor and drinks a toast to all of guests. At the end of the ceremony, the best friends of the newly-weds stay and celebrate wedding in bridal chamber. The steps of Chinese wedding ceremony are extremely complex, however, the ceremony is also lively and jubilant. 2.2.
43、2 Ceremony in American WeddingIn American wedding, the ceremony is always quiet and holy. There arent so many steps for the newly-weds when they are getting married. In America, wedding ceremonies are always held in churches. At the wedding day, all friends and families of the bridegroom and the bri
44、de are invited to the wedding. With the music starts, the bride and her father will walk into the church hand in hand. And then the ceremony starts. The pastor who is the toastmaster of wedding starts to officiate at a marriage. He will tell the significance of marriage to everybody in the church. A
45、ccording to the traditional habitude, the pastor will let the bride and the bridegroom to promise to each other, “no matter good or bad it is, rich or poor it is, weak or healthy we are, I swear I will love you and cherish you until I die.” Then the bridegroom will kiss the bride and they exchange t
46、he wedding rings. After that, there will be a big feast and the type of food in the feast is depended on the favor of the bride and her families. There are so many prismatic wedding cakes in the corner. Traditionally, the bridegroom and the bride will hold the knife together and cut cakes. This is t
47、he first thing they do together. It indicates one thing that since then they will live happily and sweet. And they will eat cakes with guests. After eating, women who dont get married get together to wait for the bride throw the bouquet of flowers to 7them and the woman who catches the bouquet will
48、get married next. Because they think that the bouquet of flowers means happiness. After throwing the bouquet, the bride will throw the garter and the man who catches the garter will marry a beautiful girl soon. Next, all guests throw rice to the bridegroom and the bride because it expresses the best wishes to them(刘利，2011). At the end of the ceremony, the bridegroom and the bride will drive the wedding car to make a wedding trip. Going on a honeymoon is a romantic thing. This activity will he
