1、Speech 1Afriendisagiftyougivetoyourself.Friendsarethosepeopleinyourlifewithwhomyoudonothaveanybloodrelation.Itsarelationofloveandaffectiontowardsotherpeople.Yourfriendissomeonewithwhomyoufeelcomfortableandcaneasilyshareyourthoughtsandfeelings.Youdonothavetothinktwicewhenyouarewithyourfriends.Atruefr
2、iendlovesyouunconditionally,understandsyou,butneverjudgesyouandalwaystriestosupportyouandgiveyougoodadvice.ThefriendshipofKrishnaandSudamaisagreatexampleoftruefriendship.“Afriendissomeonewhoknowsallaboutyouandstilllovesyou.”ElbertHubbardAtruefriendisonewillalwaysbetherewhenyouneedsomeone.Hewillleave
3、allhisimportantworksbutwillneverleaveyoualone,especiallyinyourdifficulttimes.Thatiswhyitissaidafriendinneedisafriendindeed.Difficulttimesarethebesttimetorealizewhoyourtruefriendsare.Blessedarethesoulswhohavetruefriends.Itdoesnotmatterhowmanyfriendsyouhave,whatmattersishowmanytruefriendsyouhave.Frien
4、dsshowushowtolivealifeinadifferentway;theyaretheoneswhocanchangeourviewpointsforgood.Thereisnogrowthofthepersonwithoutanyfriend.Afriendisreallyveryessentialtounderstandlife.Untilnowwehavebeenlookingatlifethewayourfamilywantedustosee,itisonlywhenweseetheworldwiththeeyesofafriendthatourviewpointchange
5、s.Thekindoffriendsyouhavedeterminesthekindofpersonyouare.Thatiswhyitisadvisedtobecarefulbeforemakingafriend.Choosesomeonewithgoodthoughtsandcharacter,becauseourthoughtsandfeelingsareaffectedbytheplaceweliveinandwiththepeoplewelivewith.Befriendswithsomeonewhomakesyoufeelfree,positiveandalive.Acouples
6、houldbebestoffriendsforasuccessfulmarriage.Husbandandwifeshouldunderstandeachotherthewaytruefriendsunderstandeachother.Theyshouldhaveloveandunderstanding,trustandrespectforeachother.Thus,beforegettingmarriedoneshouldgiveimportancetothedegreeoffriendshipacoupleholds.AssaidbyNicolasSparksinthenovel“Th
7、eNotebook”-“Youaremybestfriendaswellasmylover,andIdonotknowwhichsideofyouIenjoythemost.Itreasureeachside,justasIhavetreasuredourlifetogether.”Manysongsandstorieshavebeenwrittenontheimportanceoffriendship.Itbreakstheicebetweentwounknownpeople,iftheotherpersonisfriendlierthenapersonfeelsmorecomfortabl
8、eandeasilyopensup.Evenasmalldropoffriendshipcandowondersinanysuchrelationshipastherelationshipofacouple,parentsandtheirchild,bossandemployee,membersofanorganizationetc.Heavenwillfallonearthifwecaneradicateego,selfishnessandhateandgrowloveandfriendshipforeachotherintheheartsofpeople.Speech on Friends
9、hip 2Friendshipisoneofthepurestformsofrelationthatexistonthisearth.GettingasincereandlovingfriendisperhapsthebestgiftfromGod,whichonlyluckyfewgets.Infact,lifebecomessoverymeaninglesswithoutatruefriendspresencebesideyou.Isntit?Whenyouhaveabunchofamazingfriends,journeyoflifebecomesmorejoyousandvibrant
10、.Truefriendsaretheretolaughatyourjoy.Againwhenyoushedtears,whoelsecanbebesideyoutolendhisshoulderotherthanyourfriends?Friendshipistheonlyrelationonthisearthwhichistrulypriceless.Wemayacquireallmaterialisticpleasurebyputtingoureffort.Buteventhenliferemainsdull,unlessyoucanshareyourlifewithoneorhandfu
11、lofgenuinefriends.Humanbeingalwaystendstolongforemotionalsupportandasociallife.Theycraveforloveandcompassioneverywhere.In-spiteofpossessingeverythinginlife,whythereremainsavacuumatheart?Ithappensonlywhenyouhavenosuchgoodfriendtoshareyoursmallandsmallhappinessoflife.Oftenwecannotshareourdeepestsecret
12、swithourfamilymemberseven.Butonlyifwehaveatruefriend,itgetssoeasytoshareyourinnerthoughtswiththeone.Friendsarealwaystheretolistentoyou.Atruefriendmaycriticizeyousothatyoumaycomeoutofyourshortcoming.Hemayguidelikeatunneloflight,whenyoutakeawrongpath.Hemayscoldyouifyoucommitamistakeandshowsyoutheright
13、path.Thatswhyitisbeingsaidthattruefriendismorepreciousthananygem.Friendshipwillprovideyouwiththousandsoffunmomentsinlifewhichyouwillmemorizewhileyougrowold.Butsidebyside,attimesthisrelationalsopassesthroughmomentsofcrisis.Misunderstandingmaycropinandthisamazingrelationmaystartshattering.Alwaysbethef
14、irstonetosaveyourfriendship.Maybeyouareyettorealizethetrueworthofyourfriend.Godforbid,ifduetosomeunfavourablereasondistanceeverariseswithinthisrelation,neverletyourfriendgo.Holdhisorherhandandapologizeifyouarewrongsomewhere.Thereisnothingmorepatheticinyourlifethanlosingatruefriend.Nevereverforgettha
15、t.Friendshipisarelationwhichisastenderasanewbornbaby.Whichisalwayspureandabundleofjoywhichonlyneedsmoreandmorenourishmenttogrow,whichistonsofloveandcompassionfrombothends.Neverignoreyourfriendsortakethemforgranted.Youmaycomeacrossvariouspeopleatvariousphasesoflife.Manymaypretendtobeyourfriend.Manyma
16、yappeartobegloriousapparently.Butnevergobytheoutwardglitter.Atruefriendwillnotonlybebesideyouwhenyourlifeisarosyone.Ratherwhenyouarepassingthroughatormentingphase,ifyoucanfindsomeonebesideyouHeisonlyagenuinefriend.Loveofyourfriendwillalwaysbeunconditional.Theymayexpectnothingfromyoubutshowertheirlov
17、etoyoualways.Friendship-Isadivineword.Treasureit!Craveforitinlifeifyoudonthaveone.Trytosearchouttheone.Likeourguidingstarstheyarealwaysaroundus.Weneedtohaveaneyetosearchtheoneoutfromthecrowd.Ifyoualreadyhavesomeonelikewise,nothinglikethat.Valuehimthemost.Ifnot,heissomewherearound.Figurehimout!ThankY
18、ou!Speech 3Friendshipisafeelingofloveandaffectionofonepersonforanother.Thisfeelingoflovemustbereciprocated.Otherwisefriendshipcannotbepossible.Friendshipdoesnotexistwheretastes,feelingsandsentimentsarenotsimilar.ThefamousessayistBaconhaswarnedagainstthefriendshipbetweenaveryrichpersonandaverypoorper
19、son.Economicdisparitydamagesfriendship.Thusfriendshipisafeelingofaffectionbetweentwolikemindedpersonsofuniformstatus.Itissaidthatafriendinneedisafriendindeed.Theremaybemanyfriendsatthetimeofprosperity.Butmostofthemdesertatthetimeofadversity.Wecanexaminethesincerityofafriendduringourtimeofhardshipand
20、trouble.Onlyasincereandfaithfulfriendremainswithusatthetimeofourtrouble.Allothersleaveus.Itisverypainfulwhenourfriendsturntraitors.Moneyisanenemyoffriendship.Everybodyhasanattractionformoney.Whenlendingorborrowingofmoneyisdonebetweentwofriends,thereisgreatrisk.Friendshipmaybeaffected.Soitiswisefortr
21、uefriendstoavoidmonetarytransaction.Vanityisanotherelementwhichbreaksfriendship.Everybodyhasself-respect.Whenapersontriestocriticisehisfriend,theirfriendshipisaffected.Sofriendshipmustbetreatedverydelicately.Veryoftensomehypocritespretendtobefriends.Theyaremoredangerousthanavowedenemies.Bytellingsof
22、twordstheybringenormousruintous.Atruefriendneverexploits.Herathersurrenders.Butatpresent,themeaningoffriendshiphaschanged.Therearemanyfair-weatheredfriends.Theyterminatetheirfriendlytieassoonastheirinterestsarefulfilled.Itisverydifficulttofindatruefriendtoday.Itisbettertoestablishtruefriendshipwithe
23、itheradogoranelephant.Boththesebeastswillremainfaithfultotheirhumanfriends.Today,friendshipbetweentwopersonsisshort-lived.Goodfriendsexercisegoodinfluence.Theyalwayshelptheirfriends,indistressandinspirethemtowalkontherightpath.Butevilfriendsruinuscompletely.Speech 4Somanypeoplesaythatyouwontamountto
24、anything,youwontmakeit,youwontsucceed-unlessyoureonyourown.Butthosepeopleforgettheheroesstandingbehindthem-theunsungwarriors-thebravefightersandpeacemakers-whomakelifewhatitis.Thesepeoplearefriends,compadres,amigos,amisandeventhechums-addthevibrancyandcolortothisworldthatisotherwiseamonotoneblackand
25、white.Thesepeople-whonomatterwhatiswrongandwhattheyaredoing,supportyoueverystepofthewayandholdyouupwhenyourefalling.Ladiesandgentlemen,neverforgetthesepeoplewatchingyou,guardingyouthroughlifeshardships.Theywillbeyourlight,yourhappinesstoguideyouthroughthisneverendingdarkness.Ifsoonforgotten,themarks
26、-andsometimeseventhescars-thesepeoplecastonyourheartwillstillexist,thoughtheirreasoningmaybelost.Everyoneyoumeet-everysinglepersonimpactsyouinsomeway,nomatterhowsmallorinsignificantitmayseematthetime.Thentherearethosepeople-thespecialpeopletotouchyourheart-wholeavemarkssobigorsodeeponyoursoul,thatyo
27、ucouldneverforgettheirmarknomatterhowmuchyoutry.Thesepeoplewillholdthegreatestimpactonyourlifeandwhosepresencewillstickwiththroughalltimes.Theremarksaidtocharacterizewhoyouareandhowyourlifewillgo.Theseheroeswillbeabletotellyouwhatswrong,eventhoughyoumaynotknowityourself.Thelookinyoureyes-theyseethro
28、ughyourlies,eveniftheyblindyou.Youcantellthemyourefine-straightfacelie-andtheyllseestraightthroughit.Youcantfoolthem,canttrickthem-theyknowyoutoowell.Donteventryit-itsnotworththeeffort.Theyareyoursunshine,yourhope,yourlight.Youcantletthemextinguishoryoullextinguishyourself.Youneedthemtoholdyoutogeth
29、er-toholdyourseamstogetherwhileyourebreakingapart. Theyllholdyouwhenyoubreakdownandcry.Theyllshareyourpain-nomatterroughitmaybeorhowmuchyouhurt.Thesefightersjustwanttobringyourpaintoahaltandmakesurenomatterwhat-youllbeokay.Theywilllistentoyourproblems,andgiveadvicewhenyoucantfinditinyourownheart-eve
30、nwhenthetruthmaynotbewhatyouwanttohear.Theylldoanything-nomatterhowsillyandcrude-justtomakeyousmile.Yourflawsareembraced-theseamigosknowyouarentperfect.Theyllacceptyouforwhoyouare-eveniftheydisagreewithwhoyouareorwhatyoudo.Youcancallthem-anytimeofday-rainorshine-justtohavesomeonetotalkto,tocryto.The
31、ywilltakeyououtandtreatyou,justtomakesureyourefedandwell.Thesewarriorsbecomeyoureverythingandconsumewhatyouthoughtlifewas.Please,remembertheseeverydayheroeswhohavedonesomuchforyourlife.Theyarehereforyou-theywouldevendieforyou-howcouldyouevenbegintotossthemaway?Somethingsosimplethatbecomestoembodysom
32、ethingevengreater-somethingthatalmostseemsnothuman.Thesekindcreatures-uncaringaboutthemselvesandmoreforgivingthaneventheearthitself-arewhatmakelifespecialandworthliving.Theearthneedsthesuntolightupitssurface,justasweneedthefriendsandfamilywhoarewatchingourbacks.Please,Ibegofyou,dontletthisearthlywonderslipyouby.Embracetheonesyoulove,andwholoveyou.Dontletthatsoftflameextinguish.Holditandprotectitfromtheimpendingstorm.Whoknowswhenyoullneedtheseheroeslater,orwhentheyllneedyou-butnomatterwhat,dontletthetruemiraclesthathavecomeintoyourlifeslipaway.
