1、My Viewpoint of MarriageDifferent people have various viewpoints toward marriage cause they have different roles and stands.QianZhongshu,an eminent writer who prefaces his book A Surrounded City with Marriage is a surrounded city which people encircled want to flee from while those who stand out the
2、 city are eager to step into. However,Jane Austen started her book Pride and Prejudice with It is a truth universally acknowledged that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife.In my point of view,marriage is a warm harbour in which we can seek shelter,it is also a dest
3、ination of our life voyage after we leave parentshome or we are no longer under the protection of our parents.So we must choose marriage cautiously and then try our best to make a perfect place where we can live happily with another person.However,we cant manage it on our own without cooperating wit
4、h him. In other words,choosing a marriage means choosing a person to live with.In consequence,we should choose the husband cautiously.As for me,first,my husband must show his parents filial obedience.Parents are those who love us best.How dare we expect he loves us if a person even treats his parent
5、s ill? I believe there is love existing between man and woman,while I believe in the emotion which can be developed after living together a long time in marriage.A man can fall in love with his wife momentarily,but only when he regards his wife as a real family member can his love lasts longer.Seldo
6、m a man can endure the marriage with a woman when he is not love her any more or even hate her.However,there is enough space for manoeuvers if a man treat his wife as an indispensable family member.Second, a husband should have strong responsibilities.A man with strong responsibilities is reliable.O
7、n one hand,he will work hard to make us happy.On the other hand,he may do not anything that will hurt his wife.Maybe,most of the men are fond of the new and tired of the old,but a man who has strong responsibilities will make his mind rather his emotion control his behaviour.Last but not least,a hus
8、band should have similar outlook on life and value with his wife.Because it is a horrible thing to live an entire life with a person whom we have nothing to talk with.Now let talk about the protagnists in the Nettle.To tell the truth,I dont like the woman in it.I dont blame her for leaving a person
9、whom she doesnt want to live with.I do blame her for leaving her family.She just moves out and almost keeps no connection with her husband.They can get together to cope with their marriage.Though their marriage is too far gone, they can still be good friends.And also I hate that she hope an affair w
10、ith Mike.Much as she loves Mike,she shouldnt break a whole family at another poor womans cost.She can take Mike as a close friend or a brother whom can exchange life and work experience. Fortunately,they dont lose their mind and do something that will hurt others.Of course it is a pity that they dont meet each other any more.
