1、,How to make a good impression on girls,How to make a good first impression,How to make a good impression on jobs,The First impression,Q: How do Chinese behave when they meet at the first time ?,The first impression,manner,Be confident and outgoing. Never fidget (焦躁、坐立不安）. Relax. Smile. Make eye con
2、tact.,How to make a good first impression,Dress appropriately. Have a sense of humor. Concentrate of getting the person to talk about himself or herself. Be yourself.Remember the name of the people you meet.Stay positive.,How to make a good impression on girls,Do you think you can make a good impres
3、sion on girls? How can you make a good impression on girls?,Now lets watch a video clip and please pay attention to the boy and the girl.,Click here,Tips,Compliment her, but dont over do it. Respect her. Take it slow.Be yourself.Dont brag （吹牛）, girls hate that. State your opinion.,How to make a good
4、 impression on jobs,Mini Interview,CHINA STATE CONSTRUCTION ENGINEERING CORPORATION 中国建筑工程总公司,Q: Please introduce yourself . Q: What are you good at ? Q: Whats your interest ? Q: Talk about your shortcomings. Q: Do you like your school ? Q: How about your teachers ?,Remember,Be PreparedKnow your str
5、engths and skills. Be ready to talk about them if not directly asked.Know the job you are applying for. Research the company. PracticeThink about the questions you may be asked and practice your answers or presentation in front of a mirror, role play with friends, tape record or video tape yourself.
6、 Be Confident Enthusiasm counts. Know you are a good candidate for the job.,ClothingBe sure what you wear is in good condition and appropriate for the position for which you are interviewing.Body LanguageWatch for nervous mannerisms, but dont keep from making gestures if they are appropriate and com
7、fortable. Use good eye contact. Smile. Watch their body language for clues. ClosingThank them for their time. Re-affirm your interest in the position. Emphasize your qualifications if no other opportunity has presented itself. Send A Thank You NoteVery Important!Note may be on personal stationary an
8、d may be hand delivered.,Text Study,broodPhrases and Expressionsmake up ones mindrange from to focus ondrive sb.crazyat ones bestcommunicate with,lighten uptake seriouslyProper NamesAiles,Back,III. Word Using,1. impression (title) What s your first impression on your English teacher? I am impressed
9、by. Her/his. impresses me greatly.,2. research (evidence/facts) show(s) (proves/suggests/indicates) that. 大量的表明 (L1),Translation 大量事实表明，大部分优秀生都有良好的学习习惯。,Key A large body of facts show that most top students have good study habits.,3. consciously (L2)conscious adj. : aware, realizing sth. self-consci
10、ous adj. : shy or nervousunconscious adj. : unawareconsciousness n. :意识, 知觉,Translation 他伤得很重，但仍未失去知觉。,Key He was badly hurt, but he remained conscious.,4. range from. to. (L4)reach from (one limit) to (another),Translation DVD机的价格少则五六百元多则上千元。,Key The prices of DVD players range from￥500 or￥600 to m
11、ore than ￥1,000.,5. be absorbed in (L21)give all ones attention to,Translation 这位教授聚精会神地工作， 以至于没有听到来访者走进房间。,Key The professor was so absorbed in her work that she didnt hear her visitor enter the room.,6. drive sb. crazy (L24)Stop that music! It drives me crazy.What may drive you crazy in your daily
12、 life?7. at ones best (L26)Many people are at their best in the morning. When are you at your best in a day? “I am at my best when I.”,8. Whether. or., always remember to do sth. 不管, 还是, 始终记住要 (L36),Translation 不管事情进展得是否顺利，始终记住你要保持清醒的头脑。,Key Whether things go right or wrong, always remember to keep
13、cool.,Text Reading,词汇学习,课文分析,随 笔,How to Make a Good Impression,Para. 1 Research shows we make up our minds about people through unspoken communication within seven seconds of meeting them. Consciously or unconsciously, we show our true feelings with our eyes, faces, bodies and attitudes, causing a c
14、hain of reactions, ranging from comfort to fear.,句型,词汇学习,课文分析,Text Reading,随 笔,Para. 2 Think about some of your most unforgettable meetings: an introduction to your future spouse, a job interview, an encounter with a stranger. Focus on the first seven seconds. What did you feel and think? How did yo
15、u “read” the other person? How do you think he read you?,句型,词汇学习,课文分析,Text Reading,随 笔,Para. 3 You are the message. For 25 years Ive worked with thousands who want to be successful. Ive helped them make persuasive presentations, answer unfriendly questions, communicate more effectively. The secret h
16、as always been you are the message.,词汇学习,课文分析,Text Reading,随 笔,Para. 4 Others will want to be with you and help you if you use your good qualities. They include: physical appearance, energy, rate of speech, pitch and tone of voice, gestures, expression through the eyes, and the ability to hold the i
17、nterest of others. Others form an impression about you based on these.,词汇学习,课文分析,Text Reading,随 笔,Para. 5 Think of times when you know you made a good impression. What made you successful? You were committed to what you were talking about and so absorbed in the moment you lost all self-consciousness
18、. Para. 6 Be yourself. Many how-to books advise you to stride into a room and impress others with your qualities. They instruct you to greet them with “power handshakes” and tell you to fix your eyes on the other person. If you follow all this advice, youll drive everyone crazyincluding yourself.,句型
19、,词汇学习,课文分析,Text Reading,随 笔,Para. 7 The trick is to be consistently you, at your best. The most effective people never change from one situation to another. Theyre the same whether theyre having a conversation, addressing their garden club or being interviewed for a job. They communicate with their
20、whole being; the tones of their voices and their gestures match their words.,句型,词汇学习,课文分析,Text Reading,随 笔,Para. 8 Public speakers, however, often send mixed messages. My favorite is the kind who say, “Ladies and gentlemen. Im very happy to be here”while looking at their shoes. They dont look happy.
21、 They look angry, frightened or depressed. Para. 9 The audience always believe what they see over what they hear. They think, “Hes telling me hes happy, but hes not. Hes not being honest.”,句型,词汇学习,课文分析,Text Reading,随 笔,Para. 10 Use your eyes. Whether youre talking to one person or one hundred, alway
22、s remember to look at them. Some people start to say something while looking right at you, but three words into the sentence, they break eye contact and look out the window.,句型,词汇学习,课文分析,Text Reading,随 笔,Para. 11 As you enter a room, move your eyes comfortably; then look straight at those in the roo
23、m and smile. Smiling is important. It shows you are relaxed. Some think entering a room full of people is like going into a lions cage. I disagree. If I did agree, I certainly wouldnt look at my feet or at the ceiling. Id keep my eye on the lion!,词汇学习,课文分析,Text Reading,随 笔,Para. 12 Lighten up. Once
24、in a staff meeting, one of the most powerful chairmen in the entertainment industry became very angry over tiny problems, scolded each worker and enjoyed making them fear him. When he got to me, he shouted, “And you, Ailes, what are you doing?” Para. 13 I said, “Do you mean now, this evening or for
25、the rest of my life?” There was a moment of silence. Then the chairman threw back his head and roared with laughter. Others laughed too. Humor broke the stress of a very uncomfortable scene.,词汇学习,课文分析,Text Reading,随 笔,Para. 14 If I had to give advice in two words, it would be “lighten up”! You can a
26、lways see people who take themselves too seriously. Usually they are either brooding or talking a great deal about themselves.,词汇学习,课文分析,Text Reading,随 笔,Para. 15 Take a good hard look at yourself. Do you say “I” too often? Are you usually focused on your own problems? Do you complain frequently? If
27、 you answered yes to even one of these questions, you need to lighten up. To make others comfortable, you have to appear comfortable yourself. Dont make any huge changes; just be yourself. You already have within you the power to make a good impression, because nobody can be you as well as you can.,
28、句型,I. Three suggestions on making a good impression on others:,Be yourself.Use your eyes.Lighten up.,1. Be yourself.,Too much is as bad as too little. We should show our good qualities in a natural way.,2. Use your eyes.,If you lose proper eye contact, you are at risk of losing the happiness of your
29、 whole life.,3. Lighten up.,To make others comfortable, you have to appear comfortable yourself.,II. True or False?,Follow all the advice in how-to books. Change according to different situations. Match tones of voice and gestures with words. Its true to the audience that “Seeing is believing”. Keep
30、 eye contact while talking to others. Take yourself too seriously. Often say “I”.,AnalysisParaphraseTranslation,Rewrite sentences with “so/such. that.”,Because he is an honest businessman, people like to buy things in his shop.,His presentation was very interesting andeveryone listened carefully.,He
31、 is such an honest businessman (that) people like to buy things in his shop.,His presentation was so interesting (that) everyone listened carefully.,2. The trick is to be consistently you, atyour best. (L26),the best way,always be yourself and have your same good qualities all the time,do as well as
32、 you can,1. You were committed to what you were talking about and so absorbed in the moment, you lost all self-consciousness. (L19),Because you paid so much attention to what you were talking about, you almost forget everything outside and you didnt feel shy any more.,that,你对你所谈论的事情非常投入，当时完全沉浸其中，以至于
33、完全没有了羞怯的感觉。,3. I disagree. If I did agree. I certainly wouldnt look at my feet or at the ceiling. Id keep my eye on the lion! (L41),Even if a room full of people were like a lions cage, we should keep eye contact with the lion.,我不同意这种说法(有很多人的房间像狮子笼)。就算同意，我也绝不会看着自己的脚或天花板我会盯着那头狮子！,When people want to
34、make a good impression, the following advice can be of some help: you are the message; be yourself; use your eyes; and lighten up.,Main idea of the text ?,Devices for developing it?,Back,Summary,1,English Equivalents of Chinese,2,Creative Application of Typical Expressions,3,Further Application of T
35、ypical Patterns,短语活用,句型应用,English Equivalents of Chinese,随 笔,consciously or unconsciously,range from. to.,an encounter with a stranger,to “read” the other person,to make persuasive presentations,to hold the interest of others,to (be) base(d) sth. on,to follow all this advice,to drive sb. crazy,to do
36、 sth. with ones whole being,English Equivalents of Chinese,短语活用,句型应用,随 笔,to match ones words,to believe what one sees over what one hears,three words into the sentence,to break eye contact,to look straight at sb.,to lighten up,to become angry over tiny problems,to roar with laughter,to break the str
37、ess,to take a good hard look at,Creative Application of Expressions,to make an impression on sb.,to be committed to,to be absorbed in,at ones best,to have within one the power to do sth.,句型应用,词组互译,随 笔,The writer successfully presents the reader his ideas through the device of listing:,1. Listing (列举
38、法),设问法,举例法,Back,Part II:,Think of times when you know you made a good impression. What made you successful? (Para. 5),Part III:,Take a good look at yourself. Do you say “I” too often? Are you usually focused on your own problems? Do you complain frequently? If you answered yes to even one of these q
39、uestions, you need to lighten up.(Para. 15),举例法,列举法,2. Questioning（设问法）,Back,Exemplification is applied to make the authors advice or opinion more authentic and persuasive. And it is employed in the second part of the article as follows:,3. Exemplification (举例法),设问法,列举法,Back,2) Once in a staff meeti
40、ng, one of the most powerful chairmen in the entertainment industry became very angry over tiny problems, scolded each worker and enjoyed making them fear him.When he got to me, he shouted, “And you, Ailes, what are you doing?” I said, “Do you mean now, this evening or for the rest of my life?” Ther
41、e was a moment of silence. Then the chairman threw back his head and roared with laughter. Others laughed too. Humor broke the stress of a very uncomfortable scene. (Para.12-13),3. Exemplification (举例法),设问法,列举法,Back,Structure AnalysisTips for WritingYour Task,I. Structure Analysis,A Paragraph of a S
42、tatement Supported by a List of Things,Sample:,A Paragraph of a Statement Supported by a List of Things,Your good qualities include:,physical appearance energy rate of speech pitch and tone of voice gestures expressiveness of the eyes ability to hold the interest of others,Practice,A general stateme
43、nt: many kinds of sports on our university grounds,List of examples: football/basketball/racing/baseball/tennis/swimming/high jumping/weight lifting,Sample: Many kinds of sports occur on our university grounds. Students can participate in sports activities like football, basketball, tennis or even b
44、aseball. Our students may enjoy more sports, such as racing, swimming or high jumping. They also have access to sports like weight lifting.,A Sample,II. Writing Tips,Examples should be: enough without further details Effective sentences:divide the examples into groups put them into several different sentencesuse different verbs,
