1、送礼：Send gifts have a long history in each country. The chinese like to send expensive gift because they sets great store by external politeness,they send gift by need some help or maintain relationships. On the contraty,the westerners are more emphasize practical result. For the western teacher gets
2、 some expensive present will be understood as bribery.友谊：In chinese mind the friendship means loyal and together do everythings even without any secret.But westerners have other opinion,they believe that friendship must keep independence and know refuse.They pay attention to protected private proper
3、ty,so they dont like borrow money.Sometimes they are friendly to stranger but keep distance to friends.饮食：Food must be delicious is the basic requirements to the chinese but westerners has more concerned with the nutritive value.Chinese food have a bit complicated cooking process;but western food is
4、 known for its simplicity,and many people just prefers such oridinary fare as hamburgers,because fast lunch can save a lot of time.付钱：Westerners prefer to go Dutch in order to show their individualism.,they pay attention to protected private property.On average ,pay for the bill by one person after
5、dinner,in China.It reflects Chinas collectivism,and sometimes “he that pays the piper calls the tune”.老人：Four-band under one roof may only occur in china,family reunion is the best things to the traditional old chinese people.The western old people often lived alone,they are free to choose what to d
6、o and where to go,even can travel around the world.People care each other by living together and living alone sometimes will feel lonely.When I am Aged,I want bring up my grand-son.伴侣：Westerners choose the companion mainly based on love,but chinese people in order to “get married”,so they have many
7、standards.As a new era chinese girl,I hope my lover have economic basal and the sense of responsible,the most impottant is my lover be happy to take care of me.But a Western girl dont need look after by her boyfriend ,she will said“we are not children”.语法：In Western class you hardly hear teacher cor
8、rect the grammar mistake.But chinese teacher seem more like helping student to pinpoint grammar errors.To everyday conversations at Western,grammar become less important because when you say something others can understand that means “you are right”.But at China when you writing or take the exam,you
9、 must work hard at grammar.外国人：As a only foreigner at a party,rule no.1:keep smiling,rule no.2:listen for others and say the same things,rule no.3:praise by you pure-hearted.It will made you join this party as far as you can.At first we can talk about something topic,such as:chinese food,kungfu,movi
10、e and so on.细节：In the Western person eye,pay must return and there is no free lunch.It means when you access to service,you should pay for it,such as when you take taxi you must tip the driver.Tipping is the recognition of the work,no matter how many.Chinese often ignore these details.Chinese is eas
11、y to deal with whereas you must know an obvious truth that is do in Roma as the Romans do.I get three golden rules.The first,chinese dont like the direct opinion,so that you must tell a few white lies.The second is modest in your behavior,in order to earn many friends,all in all,moderation in all th
12、ings at china is the best of rules.The last simple truth is keep your smile whether you are happy or not.In addition,dinner time you will never to go Dutch,you must like the crowded city,even you will lose a lot of privat space.But at the same time you will fell under the spell of china culture.Toda
13、y the subject for discussion is the different between chinese university and western university.To start with the first, western adopt elite education,it holds many elite private colleges,by contrast,china have more public education.The second,the western education pay attention to bring up the special talents of students,but china think all-round development are more important.In the upshot,the university course at western can be free to choose by the student habit,but if you are chinese student you just pick the course of convention.
