1、1. Why divorce rate is on the rise? Have you noticed that more and more people are divorced in recent years? I think your answer is yes. and personally, some of my friends have already experienced it. A nice family has just fallen apart one after another leaving one parent to take care of their chil
2、d who will grow up in a unbalanced life without both parents care and love in a complete healthy family environment. 1。为什么离婚率正在上升吗?你有没有注意到,近年来越来越多的人离婚?我认为你的答案是肯定的。, 就我个人而言, 我的一些朋友已经经历过。一个不错的家庭刚刚破裂一个接一个地离开一个父母照顾他们的孩子成长在一个不平衡的生活没有父母的关心和爱一个完整健康的家庭环境。As for the causes of the broken marriage, they should
3、 be different from family to family. 至于婚姻破裂的原因,他们应该在不同的家庭。In my point of view, the most important reason is that with peoples growing demand of free lives, more and more couples chose to divorce when they find they are no suitable for each other, instead of keeping their broken relation which is nor
4、mally chosen decades ago. 在我看来,最重要的原因是, 与人的自由生活的日益增长的需求, 越来越多的夫妻选择离婚,当他们发现彼此不适合, 而不是把他们破碎的关系这通常是选择几十年前。Secondly, I think wemon have become more economically independant than they used to be,that means they neednt to depend on men for a living, they themselves also the bread winner. If their love is
5、over or their marriage is dead, they will not tolerate it. 其次,我认为女性比以往变得更加经济独立, 这意味着他们不需要依赖男人生活,他们自己也面包赢家。如果他们的爱是在婚姻或他们死了,他们不会容忍它。At last Id like to point out that more and more people are open to sex, so the increased number of love affairs outside marriage also accounts for the rising divorce rate
6、. 最后,我想指出,越来越多的人对性开放,所以婚外爱情数量的增加也占了离婚率不断上升。So my opinion is, by the desire to leave the troubles that a broken marriage brings to you, to get a free life, and in the society that being divorced is no longer a embarrass thing, the astonishing increasing rate will not be so amazing any more. 所以我的观点是,渴
7、望离开破碎的婚姻给你带来的麻烦,得到自由的生活, 和社会,离婚不再是一个难堪的事情, 惊人的增长率将不会如此惊人。2. The reasons of divorce 2。离婚的原因What Im going to do in my presentation today is the reasons of divorce. 我要做什么我今天的演讲是离婚的原因。Firstly, lets see the outline, my presentation divided into 5 parts. 首先,让我们看看大纲,我的报告分为 5 个部分。To begin with Vocabulary 首先
8、词汇量Lets turn now to - Introduction 现在让我们把介绍Marriage is one of the most important issues in everyones life. However, the divorce rate of the world is increasing. 婚姻是每个人的生活中最重要的问题之一。然而,世界的离婚率正在上升。According to a recent report one in five Chinese marriages now ends in divorce. It is a social phenomenon
9、that divorce rate is on the rise, not only in China also in the world. 根据最近的一份报告五分之一中国婚姻以离婚现在结束。它是一种社会现象,离婚率在上升,不仅在中国而且在世界。We had learned about the effect of divorce in week one, so I just focus on the reasons of divorce. A book could be written to describe all the reasons why married couples get di
10、vorced. I want to highlight a few of the major components behind marital divorce. 我们已经学了离婚的影响在一周,所以我只是专注于离婚的原因。可以编写一本书来描述所有已婚夫妇离婚的原因。我想强调的一些婚姻离婚背后的主要组件。First one is - Lack of Communication and Disclosure 一是缺乏沟通和信息披露You never hear a recently divorced person say that the reason they got a divorce was
11、because their spouse was an excellent communicator who was too trustworthy. 你永远不会听到一个刚刚离婚的人说,他们离婚的原因是因为他们的配偶是一个优秀的沟通者太值得信赖。The majority of marriages begin as a wonderful, romantic, almost fairy-tale interaction between two people. That is what is known as the “honeymoon phase“. This phase doesnt las
12、t forever. By doing so, when the honeymoon phase does end, and the normal day-to-day problems of marriage begin to rear their ugly head, they wont come as such a surprise. And refuse to acknowledge the flaws and communicate. 大多数婚姻作为一个美妙的开始,几乎童话般的浪漫,两个人之间的互动。这就是所谓的“蜜月期”。这个阶段不会永远持续下去。通过这样做,当蜜月阶段结束,婚姻和
13、正常的日常问题开始显现出来,他们不会是这样一个惊喜。并拒绝承认缺点和沟通。Next Id like to talk about - Significant Changes in Body Weight or Appearance 接下来,我想谈谈体重或外观有很大的变化Needless to say, physical attraction is a very significant part of an intimate relationship. The reason most married couples ever got together because they were physi
14、cally attracted to one another. After several years of marriage, its not uncommon for one (or both) partners to stop taking care of their body like they did when they were single. Infidelity is one of the leading causes of divorce. It goes without being said that one major contributor to infidelity
15、is a spouse who no longer seems physically attractive. 不用说,身体吸引力是一个非常亲密的关系的重要组成部分。大多数已婚夫妇曾聚在一起的原因是因为他们身体上的吸引。经过数年的婚姻,也不稀罕一个(或两个)伙伴停止照顾他们的身体,就像他们在单身。不忠是离婚的主要原因之一。不消说,不忠行为的主要因素之一是一个配偶似乎不再是身体上的吸引力。Lets move to the third reason - Children Children are wonderful and perfect and “a gift from God“. The dec
16、ision to create a child is arguably the most important choice many couples make.All too often, after the honeymoon phase of marriage ends, couples attempt to rekindle this passion by creating children. Since children require so much time and money to raise properly, married couples will soon discove
17、r that they hardly have any time to themselves. Years go by and the couple realizes theyve hardly spent anytime maintaining their marriage.Having look at the Boredom It sounds simple, but there are some people in this world who are just not meant for the institution of marriage. These people were of
18、ten called “free spirits“ or “adventurers“ throughout their lives. Those people, if one spouse in a relationship was “trapped“ into the marriage, dont expect them to stick around forever. Sometimes people simply get bored and decide to make a change，and they divorced.The last reason is - Personality
19、 Shift An ideal marriage involves two people fully secure in who they are who have reached a point in their lives and where they simply wish to share themselves with another person. The majority of marriages do not meet these standards. Instead, people marry too young before theyve had a chance to e
20、xplore life on their own and reach some conclusions for themselves. Eventually, people will gravitate toward their minds who they really are. One spouse will notice the other asking for more space and attempting to spend more time by themselves. Many-a-marriage have resulted in divorce following a s
21、ignificant change in values and personality from one participant.Part4 - ConclusionIn conclusion, the divorce rate is on the rise. And five reasons of it are lack of communication， significant changes in appearance, children problem, boredom and personality shift. At last, I hope that everyone here
22、will have a happy marriage. Thank you for listening.3. About high divorce rate and family breakdown It is widely known that divorce rate and family breakdowns increase rapidly in the world .It causes so many problems that lots of people pay attention to it and think it should be solved in the long r
23、un. In this essay, I will talk about the problem and the solutions.What cause an increasing divorce rate? In my opinion, it can be classified as following: for one thing, nowadays, the man and the women of family are more independent than before. So they can do what they want to and what they can do
24、, which may result in they are partial when their family life is in trouble. For another, the divorce family encounter problems which they can not understand each other and which they can not be acceptable each other. With the times going on, a numbers of accumulatting problems leads to family break
25、down.So, how to deal with the problem about that? I think we can do what every family respectively need . Generally speaking, three aspects must be done. Firstly, we should increasingly declare marrige are religious and sacred， and families are our lovely and real places to maintain, build and manag
26、e as well as innovate. Only in this way, should our family be united and develop better. Secondly, some institutions should be set to help those families which are in serious trouble. According to some reports, many families failure often long for several years. So professional solutions can be done
27、 during so long time. The earlier we take measures, the earlier the problems can be done to, and the fewer families break down.From all the above, we can draw the conclusion that we may attack the problem effectively. Our state institutes and all the family members should do what we can to protect our families better and better.
