1、【 英文 演讲稿 】 ： 0:11When people find out I write about time management, they assume two things. One is that Im always on time, and Im not. I have four small children, and I would like to blame them for my occasional tardiness, but sometimes its just not their fault. I was once late to my own speech on
2、time management. 0:34(Laughter) 0:35We all had to just take a moment together and savor that irony. 0:39The second thing they assume is that I have lots of tips and tricks for saving bits of time here and there.Sometimes Ill hear from magazines that are doing a story along these lines, generally on
3、how to help their readers find an extra hour in the day. And the idea is that well shave bits of time off everyday activities, add it up, and well have time for the good stuff. I question the entire premise of this piece, but Im always interested in hearing what theyve come up with before they call
4、me. Some of my favorites:doing errands where you only have to make right-hand turns - 1:09(Laughter) 1:10Being extremely judicious in microwave usage: it says three to three-and-a-half minutes on the package, were totally getting in on the bottom side of that. And my personal favorite, which makes s
5、ense on some level, is to DVR your favorite shows so you can fast-forward through the commercials.That way, you save eight minutes every half hour, so in the course of two hours of watching TV, you find 32 minutes to exercise. 1:30(Laughter) 1:31Which is true. You know another way to find 32 minutes
6、 to exercise? Dont watch two hours of TV a day, right? 1:38(Laughter) 1:40Anyway, the idea is well save bits of time here and there, add it up, we will finally get to everything we want to do. But after studying how successful people spend their time and looking at their schedules hour by hour, I th
7、ink this idea has it completely backward. We dont build the lives we want by saving time. We build the lives we want, and then time saves itself. 2:06Heres what I mean. I recently did a time diary project looking at 1,001 days in the lives of extremely busy women. They had demanding jobs, sometimes
8、their own businesses, kids to care for, maybe parents to care for, community commitments - busy, busy people. I had them keep track of their time for a week so I could add up how much they worked and slept, and I interviewed them about their strategies, for my book. 2:29One of the women whose time l
9、og I studied goes out on a Wednesday night for something. She comes home to find that her water heater has broken, and there is now water all over her basement. If youve ever had anything like this happen to you, you know it is a hugely damaging, frightening, sopping mess.So shes dealing with the im
10、mediate aftermath that night, next day shes got plumbers coming in, day after that, professional cleaning crew dealing with the ruined carpet. All this is being recorded on her time log. Winds up taking seven hours of her week. Seven hours. Thats like finding an extra hour in the day. 3:03But Im sur
11、e if you had asked her at the start of the week, “Could you find seven hours to train for a triathlon?“ “Could you find seven hours to mentor seven worthy people?“ Im sure she wouldve said what most of us wouldve said, which is, “No - cant you see how busy I am?“ Yet when she had to find seven hours
12、 because there is water all over her basement, she found seven hours. And what this shows us is that time is highly elastic. We cannot make more time, but time will stretch to accommodate what we choose to put into it. 3:41And so the key to time management is treating our priorities as the equivalen
13、t of that broken water heater. To get at this, I like to use language from one of the busiest people I ever interviewed. By busy, I mean she was running a small business with 12 people on the payroll, she had six children in her spare time. I was getting in touch with her to set up an interview on h
14、ow she “had it all“ - that phrase. I remember it was a Thursday morning, and she was not available to speak with me. Of course, right? 4:11But the reason she was unavailable to speak with me is that she was out for a hike, because it was a beautiful spring morning, and she wanted to go for a hike. S
15、o of course this makes me even more intrigued, and when I finally do catch up with her, she explains it like this. She says, “Listen Laura, everything I do, every minute I spend, is my choice.“ And rather than say, “I dont have time to do x, y or z,“ shed say, “I dont do x, y or z because its not a
16、priority.“ “I dont have time,“ often means “Its not a priority.“ If you think about it, thats really more accurate language. I could tell you I dont have time to dust my blinds, but thats not true. If you offered to pay me $100,000 to dust my blinds, I would get to it pretty quickly. 4:58(Laughter)
17、4:59Since that is not going to happen, I can acknowledge this is not a matter of lacking time; its that I dont want to do it. Using this language reminds us that time is a choice. And granted, there may be horrible consequences for making different choices, I will give you that. But we are smart peo
18、ple, and certainly over the long run, we have the power to fill our lives with the things that deserve to be there. 5:24So how do we do that? How do we treat our priorities as the equivalent of that broken water heater? 5:30Well, first we need to figure out what they are. I want to give you two stra
19、tegies for thinking about this.The first, on the professional side: Im sure many people coming up to the end of the year are giving or getting annual performance reviews. You look back over your successes over the year, your “opportunities for growth.“ And this serves its purpose, but I find its mor
20、e effective to do this looking forward. So I want you to pretend its the end of next year. Youre giving yourself a performance review,and it has been an absolutely amazing year for you professionally. What three to five things did you do that made it so amazing? So you can write next years performan
21、ce review now. 6:13And you can do this for your personal life, too. Im sure many of you, like me, come December, get cards that contain these folded up sheets of colored paper, on which is written what is known as the family holiday letter. 6:27(Laughter) 6:29Bit of a wretched genre of literature, r
22、eally, going on about how amazing everyone in the household is,or even more scintillating, how busy everyone in the household is. But these letters serve a purpose,which is that they tell your friends and family what you did in your personal life that mattered to you over the year. So this years kin
23、d of done, but I want you to pretend its the end of next year, and it has been an absolutely amazing year for you and the people you care about. What three to five things did you do that made it so amazing? So you can write next years family holiday letter now. Dont send it. 7:08(Laughter) 7:09Pleas
24、e, dont send it. But you can write it. And now, between the performance review and the family holiday letter, we have a list of six to ten goals we can work on in the next year. 7:20And now we need to break these down into doable steps. So maybe you want to write a family history.First, you can read
25、 some other family histories, get a sense for the style. Then maybe think about the questions you want to ask your relatives, set up appointments to interview them. Or maybe you want to run a 5K. So you need to find a race and sign up, figure out a training plan, and dig those shoes out of the back
26、of the closet. And then - this is key - we treat our priorities as the equivalent of that broken water heater, by putting them into our schedules first. We do this by thinking through our weeks before we are in them. 7:55I find a really good time to do this is Friday afternoons. Friday afternoon is
27、what an economist might calla “low opportunity cost“ time. Most of us are not sitting there on Friday afternoons saying, “I am excited to make progress toward my personal and professional priorities right now.“ 8:14(Laughter) 8:15But we are willing to think about what those should be. So take a litt
28、le bit of time Friday afternoon, make yourself a three-category priority list: career, relationships, self. Making a three-category list reminds usthat there should be something in all three categories. Career, we think about; relationships, self - not so much. But anyway, just a short list, two to
29、three items in each. Then look out over the whole of the next week, and see where you can plan them in. 8:47Where you plan them in is up to you. I know this is going to be more complicated for some people than others. I mean, some peoples lives are just harder than others. It is not going to be easy
30、 to find time to take that poetry class if you are caring for multiple children on your own. I get that. And I dont want to minimize anyones struggle. But I do think that the numbers I am about to tell you are empowering. 9:11There are 168 hours in a week. Twenty-four times seven is 168 hours. That
31、is a lot of time. If you are working a full-time job, so 40 hours a week, sleeping eight hours a night, so 56 hours a week - that leaves 72 hours for other things. That is a lot of time. You say youre working 50 hours a week, maybe a main job and a side hustle. Well, that leaves 62 hours for other t
32、hings. You say youre working 60 hours. Well, that leaves 52 hours for other things. You say youre working more than 60 hours. Well, are you sure? 9:52(Laughter) 9:54There was once a study comparing peoples estimated work weeks with time diaries. They found that people claiming 75-plus-hour work week
33、s were off by about 25 hours. 10:03(Laughter) 10:05You can guess in which direction, right? Anyway, in 168 hours a week, I think we can find time for what matters to you. If you want to spend more time with your kids, you want to study more for a test youre taking, you want to exercise for three hou
34、rs and volunteer for two, you can. And thats even if youre working way more than full-time hours. 10:26So we have plenty of time, which is great, because guess what? We dont even need that much time to do amazing things. But when most of us have bits of time, what do we do? Pull out the phone, right
35、?Start deleting emails. Otherwise, were puttering around the house or watching TV. 10:45But small moments can have great power. You can use your bits of time for bits of joy. Maybe its choosing to read something wonderful on the bus on the way to work. I know when I had a job that required two bus r
36、ides and a subway ride every morning, I used to go to the library on weekends to get stuff to read. It made the whole experience almost, almost, enjoyable. Breaks at work can be used for meditating or praying. If family dinner is out because of your crazy work schedule, maybe family breakfast could
37、be a good substitute. 11:20Its about looking at the whole of ones time and seeing where the good stuff can go. I truly believe this.There is time. Even if we are busy, we have time for what matters. And when we focus on what matters, we can build the lives we want in the time weve got. 11:45Thank you. 11:46(Applause)
