1、7 Tips to Feeling Better About YourselfWhen youre feeling lousy, what can you do to feel better about yourself?It turns out that we feel better about ourselves when we behave in ways that we find worthy of our own and others respect such as helping other people, surmounting a fear, and the like.1. D
2、o a good deed. Be selfless, if only for selfish reason; youll benefit as much as the person youre helping. When Im feeling low, forcing myself to do something for someone elses benefit seems particularly hard, but then it gives me a big boost. As Montaigne observed, “These testimonies of a good cons
3、cience are pleasant; and such a natural pleasure is very beneficial to us; it is the only payment that can never fail.” In the same vein2. Make small gestures of good citizenship. Bring your old magazines to the gym so other people can read them. Pick up trash that other people have left on the subw
4、ay. Sign up to be an organ donor.3. Keep a resolution. Not only will you benefit from exercising or cleaning out your garage, youll also get a boost from the mere fact that you made a commitment and stuck to it. Feeling so overtaxed that you cant face the thought of trying to keep a resolution? Try
5、this one: Make your bed. Just do that one thing. I know it sounds a bit preposterous, but many people have told me what a lift theyve received from that small act.4. Become an expert. Theres great satisfaction in mastery. Pick a subject that interests you, and dig in deep: the American Revolution, t
6、he works of Chekhov, wine, Homeland (my husband and I love this TV show).5. Boost your energy. Studies show that when youre feeling energetic, youre much more likely to feel good about yourself. For a quick shot of energy, take a brisk ten-minute walk (outside, if possible, where sunlight will also
7、stimulate your brain), listen to some great music, or talk to a friend.6. Challenge yourself physically or mentally. Many people feel great after para-sailing, white-water rafting, surfing, or rollercoaster-riding. (Not me, but other people.) Or push yourself to speak in public, ask someone on a dat
8、e, make a gesture of friendship toward an acquaintance, or begin an intimidating creative project. In these trying situations, I often comfort myself by repeating “Enjoy the fun of failure.” And its true, even when my effort fails, I feel good about the fact that I gave it a shot.7. Make something b
9、y hand. Theres something particularly satisfying about making something with your own hands, whether its a loaf of bread, a photo album, a piece of furniture, or a fly-fishing fly. Its tangible, its creative, its right in front of you. Similarly, making visible improvements like cleaning out a close
10、t can give a big boost. I get an (inexplicably) large boost just from changing a light bulb. I delay, I delay, I delay and then finally I change it! A triumph!How about you? Have you found any good strategies to feel better about yourself? As Joseph Addison observed, “The important question is not, what will yield to man a few scattered pleasures, but what will render his life happy on the whole amount.”-Do you love great quotes? I do. Sign up here to get the Moment of Happiness-a free daily email with a happiness quote. Almost 76,000 people get it each day.
